Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Assessing Your Students

How many times have you heard this from a member or your congregation, “When I was in youth group, we did (fill in the blank). You should try to do that.”? When that person said that to you, did you slap them in the face and say, “Wake up!”? I’m just kidding about the slap in the face, but not kidding about the “wake up” comment. I couldn’t tell you how many times people have come up to me and tried to tell me that I should model our current youth ministry program after their youth group 20-30 years ago. I am sure you have had similar experiences.

What I feel that people fail to realize is that the tactics youth ministers used 20-30 years ago are probably not very effective in reaching today’s youth. A perfect example for this is the newspaper industry. Just recently the Denver Rocky Mountain Post and the Seattle Post-Intelligencer had to close business while the Philadelphia Inquirer just declared bankruptcy. How could this happen? These are big newspapers in big markets! What could have caused these newspapers to struggle this much?

What happened was that times changed and more and more people were getting their [the newspapers] information for free off of their website. Why would anyone buy a newspaper when they can get the exact same information for free!?! We have become a digital world and less people are buying papers. Because less people are buying papers, ad agencies are spending less to promote in newspapers. Ad revenue is the money flow that all newspapers need. These newspapers (and probably more to come) have failed to adapt to the change in the world thinking and have paid the price for it.

The Washington Times, however, have taken a radical approach to this change. For starters, they stopped producing a Saturday newspaper in order to save money. Then, on March 24th, 2009, they hired Thomas Culligan to serve a new position called “Chief Revenue and Marketing Officer”. In a statement, the Washington Times said, “Mr. Culligan will lead the Times’ advertising and marking departments as the company carries out an ‘aggressive transformation’ from a printed product to a multimedia company serving customers in the local, national and global markets.”[1][1] The Washington Times was proactive in responding to the change in how people are receiving information. With this hire and change in approach, did the Washington Times sacrifice their core values and mission? NO! They simply changed their approach at reaching their audience.

How does this relate to assessing where your students are at?

It relates because just like newspapers, youth ministry needs to be think of adaption. The way we adapt is through evaluation. We live in a post-modern world. If we are still doing ministry the same way our youth ministers and pastors did when we were young, we have failed! Now, don’t get me wrong. You can still have the same goals such as community building and outreach. Those are good goals that can stand the test of time. But, if you approach community building and outreach the same youth ministers did in the 70s or 80s, we are missing our potential. Most importantly, students are missing out because we are failing to reach the teens of today.

That is why it is important to know your students. What is the make up of your students? Are they churched or unchurched? Are they public, private or home schooled? Where are they at with Christ? Do they have a relationship with Christ? If not, how are you going to reach them for Christ? Do you have any leader students? What do are their interests? These are just a few questions you can be asking yourself about your students. By answering them, you are beginning to understand who they are and what makes them tick. Once you understand your students better, you can start reaching them for Christ in a more effective way.

Understanding your students will help be more effective in organizing your gatherings. For example, if you decide to start doing expository teaching, but your youth are not spiritually mature to handle that depth, then you will not be as effective in reaching them. A topical teaching approach would be better. In the same way, this applies to how you organize your meetings. If you decide, without knowing where you youth are at first, that you want to be outreach focused in which you organize your meeting times with all fun and games, then conclude with a brief message, yet fail to have anything for strong believers to go deeper, you may might not be adequately addressing the needs of your youth to take that next step in Christ. Whatever your situation is, in order to move forward and producing real fruit, it is always best if you know where your students are at first!

Once you have identified who they are, you can begin to set up a strategy for reaching them. A few years ago, I took a hard look at my ministry. Out of that time of assessment and evaluation, I discovered that I was not reaching my students where they were and taking them to that next level. In some ways it was very difficult to realize that we were not being as effective as we could be. But, out of that time came a new strategy for the program (we will talk about developing a strategic plan in my next post). Out of your time of student assessment, may come a time of re-strategizing. Or, it may just confirm what you are doing is reaching your students for Christ.

As you begin to look at understanding your students and possibly re-strategize how you reach them, I want to encourage you to talk to your Senior Pastor (or Senior Director) about what you are processing and learning about your students. I have found that, when you are thinking about taking a shift in where your program is headed, it is best to make sure your Supervisor knows what is going on and why are thinking about this. Then, they know what is going on and can help you process further. Also, this helps because if someone complains about things, your Supervisor will already know what is going on and can be supportive, rather than caught off guard.

I want to be clear here. This is not an evaluation where you are looking at your mission statement and focus on being purposeful (we will talk about that in our next post). This is an assessment of the progress you are making at reaching students in this post-modern world. You can have the best purposes out there, but if you do not understand your students or the students you are trying to reach, your purposes will fail. Whether you are new to your ministry position or have been there for a few years, it is always good to take an honest, regular assessment of where you are at in reaching students for Christ.

The key to this assessment is deciding how you judge success. For each ministry it will be different. It could be having the most students go to summer camp so they can hear about Christ and be changed. For others it could be having a solid and growing small group ministry. It does not matter what you are striving to be — that is between you and God. It only matters how you judge your success. Once you are able to determine how you will judge your success, you can begin the process of knowing just how effective you are in reaching students for Christ.

By understanding your audience and setting realistic goals to encourage them in their relationship with Christ, you have a way to adequately judge your success and be more effective at taking them to the next level in Christ. Let’s not have our program die off, like some of the newspapers out there, because we fail to adapt our program to these post-modern teens. We can be more effective. It begins with taking an assessment of who they are.

TAKE A MINUTE and…

1. Begin to assess your students. Print out (or write out) every student in your program. Then, begin to write down notes about who they are. Where are they with Christ? What are their life interests? How is their home life? You may not know all the details about each student, so ask your volunteer leaders to help you (make it a leaders meeting time in which you are critically looking at these students).

2. After you assess who they are, start looking at how you are doing ministry. Is your ministry effectively reaching these students for Christ? If not, how can you begin to change and adapt?

Tom Pounder is the youth pastor at Cedar Run Community Church in Virginia and blogs at Not a Mega Church?

Josh GriffinMore PostsHSM’s Small Group Covenant

Here is the small group covenant from the front of our student journal this year. If it would work for you, copy/paste! Edit at will …

CONSISTENT
I promise to regularly attend my small group. If I have to miss, I will responsibly let my small group leader know.

COMPASSIONATE
I promise to be patient, loving, and forgiving toward my small group family because I understand that I am a part of a family of students who want to grow.

TEACHABLE
I joined this small group to grow spiritually, so I promise to do my part by listening attentively with an open heart, as well as bring my Bible and notebook each week.

AUTHENTIC
I promise to be open and honest about my life with my small group at all times, allowing for accountability and encouragement between my small group and myself.

CONFIDENTIAL
I promise to honor my small group by not communicating what we discuss with anyone outside of our group.

Thanks to Jessica for letting me share it!

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsBook Review: The Healing of Jabez

I’m in the middle of a few books – but wanted to finish up The Healing of Jabez by John Mauck before we started our Life’s Healing Choices (HSM is calling it HAPPY) church-wide series next week. The book, which will inevitably and maybe intentionally be compared to Bruce Wilkinson’s The Prayer of Jabez, focuses on the life of Jabez through his life of pain to healing. Either way, the book navigates what little we know of Jabez from Scripture and builds a process for dealing with life’s pain. Mauck specifically goes after pain caused by parents, pain we cause other people and the pain that comes from names. The book does get a bit bogged down as an entry-level title with all of the talk about translations and original Greek, but good stuff, especially for the hurting seeker. B-

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsWant to GUEST POST on MoreThanDodgeball? Here’s How!

After the amazing success of being gone most of August and pre-posting GUEST POSTS almost the entire month – I’ve decided to post at least one guest post every weekend here on the blog. Want to get your article posted here – get a hold of me! I’ve already got one for this weekend, but would love to post your best stuff here next week. Send it in today!

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsBook Review: The NIV Waterproof Bible

Checked out the Waterproof Bible this week – Bardin & Marsee Publishing sent me a review copy of the hot-off-the-press version of the Bible that lands in bookstores and Amazon.com later this month. Their slogan “Be Inspired. Anywhere.” is about accurate. The NIV translation of the New Testament + Psalms and Proverbs is made of Durabook Technology so the pages are plastic and withstand most anything including total submersion and being completely frozen. Now, I’m not exactly Captain Adventure and am probably not going to test this out in Algonquin Provincial Park this weekend but here’s what I think: I like it a lot.

While it is expensive, the concept merges well with youth ministry. Youth workers are hard on Bibles – camps, retreats and events all take their toll on the Good Book. I realize you might be thinking, “Really?” but I still dig it in the youth ministry context. I do wish the cover was a little firmer and the layout was just slightly less crowded. I’m going to give it a nice safe test run … on stage this weekend! Maybe I’ll spill a bottle of water on it, you never know. B+

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsHow to Get People to Your Blog

My friend and just-finished HSM intern for 2 years Josh Pease just started blogging again.

He used to use MySpace for blogging what seems like eons ago and he has always had some really great stuff to say. He’s working hard post-internship to become a writer and youth ministry speaker, and our recent conversations rambled on the subject of building a blog audience. Here’s what I told him, and thought it might be helpful for you, too:

  • Write stuff worth linking to — great content will draw people in once and a history of great content will keep people coming back.
  • Post other people’s stuff that fits your niche, but play nice and spread links around.
  • Exclusive content is huge – if you’ve got a video or are finding and collecting stuff to save people time, they’ll come back to see what’s new because you’re helped them eliminate a step.
  • Participate in conversations on your blogs.
  • Participate in conversations on other blogs.
  • Find a niche and a voice and stay in that sweet spot.
  • The more posts (variety helps, and staying the same helps), the more words Google picks up on.
  • Leverage Twitter, because ReTweets can be big.
  • Work hard to get links from the authorities in your field/niche, without being a stalker.
  • Be yourself, leverage your personality.
  • Google really likes consistent updates over the long term. Drip, drip, drip and you eventually fill a pool.
  • Write up stuff for other sites in exchange for links and bylines.

Oh, check out Josh’s blog … I told him I would mention it.

JG

Josh GriffinMore Posts10 Signs You’re in For a Long Sermon

10. There’s a case of bottled water beside the pulpit.
9. The pews have camper hookups.
8. You overhear the pastor telling the sound guy to have a few extra CDs on hand to record today’s sermon.
7. The preacher has brought a pile of Lunchables to the pulpit.
6. The preacher breaks for an intermission.
5. The bulletins have pizza delivery menus.
4. When the preacher asks the deacon to bring in his notes, they roll in a 4-drawer filing cabinet.
3. The choir loft is furnished with recliners.
2. Instead of taking off his watch and laying it on the pulpit, the preacher uses a sundial.
1. The minister says, “You’ll be out in time to watch the Super Bowl” … but it’s only September 13th.

Courtesy of my dad.

JG

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Josh GriffinMore Posts4 Reasons Why We Have Small Groups

Writing up a whole new batch of leader training this year for our small group leaders. Here’s some of the “why” I’ve been writing about small groups:

CARE: Small groups make the large group small
We like the anonymity our large group program provides, but love the attention to individuals that small groups give. Instead of being an unknown in a crowd, we help students be known and loved as an individual young man or woman.

COMMUNITY: They are an integral part of our discipleship process
The weekend service is just the beginning – we want to encourage students to take spiritual steps forward in our process. Small groups is that next step, and is the gateway to other parts of the journey like serving and growing deeper in their faith. A breakdown at this level can hinder spiritual growth.

WISDOM: There is power in an adult life intersecting with students’ lives
There are all sorts of influences in a student’s life – we believe that pairing them with a well-trained, loving leader is a powerful way for them to grow spiritually and taste spiritual community. Someone down the path of life a little further can provide impactful insight, encouragement and warnings in the life of a high school student.

ACCOUNTABILITY: In community there is plenty of positive peer pressure and reinforcement
Being in a small group with other committed Christians encourages students to grow together, to make wise decisions, and have present accountability speaking into their lives. We imagine a place where students are encouraged on God’s path and wise decisions are encouraged – and when someone makes a poor choice they are greeted with love and a push back onto God’s path. Small groups provide that environment of attention.

Why do you have small groups?

JG

Josh GriffinMore Posts5 Things Parents Need to Know from Your Small Group Leader

Dennis over on Volunteer Youth Ministry just posted some great small group training on his approach to working with parents of his small group. I think I’m going to ask him to present some of it at our upcoming training nights. Good stuff, here’s a clip:

3. I’m not a knucklehead. I show I’m not a knucklehead by:

  • Not giving authoritative parental advice on subjects I’m not equipped or experienced to address — I can say I don’t know, but here’s some ideas instead of “Here’s what to do”
  • Talking to them in a way that makes them feel welcome
  • Interacting with them on their level — not same level I interact with their students
  • Finding answers to their questions instead of just sending them to a website or giving them the office phone number

4. Small group is not a waste of their child’s time. I communicate to parents the high value of their child’s time with me by sending them home with new perspectives on Christian living and action steps to match.

I don’t care if parents ever hear these words from their child, “Small group was so fun. Our leader is incredibly funny.” If this is all their parents hear, then small group time will be seen as just another way for their kids to postpone homework. While we do have loads of fun and I am the funniest person you could ever meet (have I mentioned I’m known for exaggeration?), I want students taking something deeper from our time together than how fun it was. I want them to communicate through their actions and discussions outside of small group that their hearts and minds are maturing spiritually.

5. I’m teaching them relational skills for home life. When I teach, I am very family-friendly. I include a healthy dose of tips for respecting parents and dealing with family struggles throughout the year. In this way, I partner with parents.

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsHow to Give a Student Advice

Liked this post over on the new blog Surviving Student Ministry. Here’s an excerpt on some steps to think about when giving students in your youth ministry advice:

1. Don’t do it all the time. Trust me. When a student feels that all your relationship is about them sitting there and you telling them how to live. They tune out very quick. You need to build trust with a student first. Spend time with them. Why would someone want to take your advice if you have shown no interest in their lives? Pick your times. Even if that student is asking for advice, it may not be the right time to do it then. Pray and get back to them later.

2. Avoid answering quickly. Let them get everything out before you speak. Even asked them what they want for you. Ask them if they want advice at that moment. Sometimes they realize or you realize that what really is going on, is that they just needed to get some stuff off their chests. If it is a real serious issue. NEVER be afraid to tell them that you want to take some time to pray and see what the Lord says about this issue. Never give into the pressure that you have to answer right then and there.

JG

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