Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: What Do You Do All Day?

Not to long ago a girl in my ministry asked me, “what exactly do you do?” I was a little caught off guard and stumbled around my words, so I thought I would take just a little bit of time and share with you what youth ministry looks like on a day to day basis.

Here are some examples of what I do: pray, study, read, keep up with teen culture (not very easy to do), preach, teach, share, text, email, facebook, administrate, organize, make phone calls, return phone calls, conflict resolution, plan activities, hospital visits, confront, encourage, get frustrated, strategize, buy new tools for ministry, edit video, clean up, talk to parents, support my pastor, go to meetings, travel, meet new people, raise money, balance my time with my family, go to school events (concerts, games, …), develop leaders, update website, share life with others, stay up all night, drive a bus and go out to eat!

There are so many reasons that I love what I do–The primary reason is seeing teenager’s give their life to Christ. The other night at church I was talking to a girl about her life and I realized that the conversation needed a little more attention then a 3 or 4 minute chat so I gave her my cell number and we ended up talking on the phone for about 45 minutes. This young lady gave her life to Christ on the phone that night! The fact that God can use someone like me (who deserves nothing that I have) is a realistic picture of the grace of God.

My youth group aka…MZS is amazing! There are some awesome kids that God is molding and shaping into the image of HIS SON. I love to see teenager’s get connected into the group. I feel that God has His hand upon us and is ready to use ALL of us if we will be obedient to HIS calling!

  • What if each student truly became obedient to what God desires for their life?
  • What if each of us really got passionate about inviting our friends to church?
  • What if we truly realized that God has so much more to offer us than the world.
  • What if we dropped our masks when we came to church and told people who we really were so we could begin the process of becoming what God really wants?
  • What if our youth ministries became a place synonymous with love, acceptance and grace?

This is what I desire to see happen in our group. Are you willing to become an Ambassador for Jesus Christ? This is God’s plan and purpose for you! You are God’s Masterpiece–don’t settle for the status quo.

Jody Shelton is a student pastor in Atlanta, GA. Check out his blog at http://jodyshelton.org.

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Let Me Check My Cell

I recently returned from a summer mission trip where we made the unfathomable decision to collect cell phones for an entire week. A few students needed us to help them through the night sweats and uncontrollable shaking, but for the most part, by day two, all was well in the world.

We ended up having a week of deepened relationships, focused conversation, and focused service to others. Students could call their parents from the adult leaders’ cell phones but other than that, they were free… so to speak.

Three days after our trip I found myself in our local college/ young adult ministry setting. We meet in a local coffee bistro with live music and awesome discussion. My husband is the leader, so I love the ministry, 30 Below is something I look forward to every week. However, one thing was really obvious to me after having a week free of technological interruption, everyone around me (dozens of people sitting around tables) sat in this all too familiar conversation with eyes darting every few minutes to their lit up phones. Even if it was to simply “check the time”, we were all there…but not really. I started to wonder if I too, if our phones have become our safety, our fall-out plan.

I put my phone in my purse and tried my best not to look at it during the discussion. I’m already distracted enough. How do we get to know people when we are constantly holding, typing, looking, messing, and obsessing over our phones?

There’s plenty of good reasons to have constant contact with our cell phone appendage, however, when should we take a break, if only for a few minutes to connect face to face?

I would love to know what other youth leaders and people think about phones, texting, etc. in the youth setting. Restricting them can mean a loss of relationships in a program setting. How do we find a good balance? How do we convince students that there is something really cool to enter into (life) when we set them down for a little while, when it’s very hard to do ourselves?

Just thinking…as my cell phone ironically buzzes my desk.

Brooklyn Lindsey is the Middle School Pastor at Highland Park Church of the Nazarene. Check out her blog at http://ywbrooklyn.com.

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Youth Leaders and Alcohol

For all of our youth leaders, we have an expectation that they don’t consume alcohol at any time until they have satisfactorily answered the 6 questions below.

Why? Alcohol abuse is a huge issue in Australia, and particularly on the Gold Coast. As a youth ministry we don’t want to condone this abuse, or be seen to conform to it. Additionally, we want to protect our youth leaders from accusations by youth or their parents, even if they’re entirely in the clear. We understand that drinking alcohol is a personal decision to be made by each person, but until they have a mature answer for their decision, we ask them to abstain.

But… We have 6 questions that we ask each youth leader to consider, work through, and provide a written and verbal answer for. If they can satisfactorily answer these questions, then we encourage them to exercise their mature freedom and drink if they choose to. These questions provide protection for our youth leaders, protection for the ministry, and protection for the name of Jesus that we carry. It also allows the leaders to have an answer when their friends, youth, or parents of youth question them about their decision to drink or to abstain.

The questions are:
1. Why do I drink alcohol?
2. Do I know when and how to stop?
3. Do I know the situation of those around me?
4. Is this the best way for me to present Jesus?
5. Am I acting in love towards my brother?
6. Can I explain my personal conviction from scripture?

Geoff Snook is an Australian youth worker who blogs at http://reflectionsofasnook.blogspot.com.

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Breaking Up with My Television

I think we should break up.

I know we’ve had heaps of great times together, and I’m so thankful for all the great memories. I’ll miss the times when we’d spend a quiet night in, just the two of us. I’ll miss the excitement, the energy, the laughter and the romance.

But I guess I’ve known for a while now that we’re just moving in different directions. It was never meant to be. You’re happy staying where you are, but I’m restless. I want to see the world – and change it! I want to make a difference. I know you’re passionate about some really big issues, but I just can’t be tied down anymore. I’ve got to cut loose and chase my own destiny.

I thought about whether we should take some time to give each other some space, but I’ve decided that I need a clean break. I know this is the right thing, the best thing, and so I’m not going to draw this out. I know it’s difficult to hear, but I know God has a significant plan for my life, and deep down I know that being with you is going to stop me becoming all that I can be.

We’ve got plenty of mutual friends, and we’ll probably run into each other from time to time… When that happens, don’t worry – I won’t make a scene or make things awkward. You can count on me to be polite, inclusive, a perfect gentleman. And maybe from time to time we can hang out a bit on the weekend. But gone are the days when we’d hang out every night of the week.

This is the end. Television – I’m breaking up with you.

Originally published on www.salvos.org.au. Visit them for more articles by The Salvation Army.

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: To Change or Not to Change

As we gear up for a new year of student ministry, we are looking many changes square in the face. We are looking at “tweaking” a good bit of the things that we do on a regular basis. I have always been one that is open to changing things as needed. The other day, I began to wonder if this mindset could actually be backed up by the Bible.

As my mind wondered and my fingers browsed the pages of Scripture, I came across some interesting things…

  • In creation, God created man in a different manner than He created everything else (Genesis 2:7).
  • There was only one ark (Genesis 6).
  • There was only one burning bush (Exodus 3).
  • There was only one disciple who walked on water, and they did it only once (Matthew 14:22-33).

One can easily see from Scripture that God has chosen to use unique ways to bring glory to Himself and do great things. Why do we see something work once and believe that is the only way that it should be done until Jesus comes back? The truth is that the ways that people communicate changes with the times. Though the message of the cross shall never change, the methods that we use to get that message out have to change with the times.

How are you clearly getting the message of Jesus Christ out to those around you?

Anthony Stephens is the Student Pastor at FBC Birmingham. Check out his blog at www.anthony-stephens.com.

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Step by Step

Sometimes, when I read the Scripture, it’s life-giving; other times it’s dry. Sometimes, we give it the attention it needs — others, not so much.

And then, every once in a while, I read the Scripture, and it breathes life into me. I mean God comes down and is embracing you, and as you read, you feel the very heart of God moving you. This morning I read Psalm 143. There have been songs written, and sermons taught about this particular song, but today, today it spoke to me in a different light.

For the first time, I think that my heart was exactly where David’s was when he wrote this. I believe that he was experiencing a time in his life in which he knew he couldn’t take another step without God’s blessing — not one, single step. Satan was hard after him, and the powers of this world were closing in on him, and he needed to just kneel and let God fight his enemies. I believe he was crying, sobbing uncontrollably when he wrote this, so much he couldn’t even see the words he was writing, much less having no idea the impact that his writings would have on humanity.

He writes, “Answer me quickly, O LORD, my spirit fails; Do not hide Your face from me, Or I will become like those who go down to the pit. Let me hear your lovingkindness in the morning; For I trust in You; Teach me the way in which I should walk; For to You I lift up my sould. Deliver me, O LORD, from my enemies; I take refuge in You.

May you run to your Creator today. May you take refuge in Him alone.

Mark Cox is the Student Pastor at Indian Springs Baptist Church in Bryant, AR. You can follow him on Twitter www.twitter.com/markhcox and read his blog at www.thinknextnow.com.

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Epic Fail

You can get on youtube and type in ‘parking fail’, ‘soccer fail’, ‘pen trick fail’ or ‘proposal fail’ and catch some of the latest clips put out by www.failblog.org of people making a right mess of things. These clips are some of the funniest or most disturbing (depending on your sense of humour) clips you will see this week.

This is really just the online version of ‘Funniest Home Videos’, as pretty much the majority of that show’s clips are also people falling over, failing an attempted trick, or generally having a bad day.

Personally I cringe when I see someone’s masterpiece that has probably taken days of hard work be destroyed in an instant (‘ice sculpture fail’). Even though it is painful I just can’t look away. Why do we find the failures so interesting? No one googles ‘pen trick success’. No one really cares about a soccer goal unless we know the player or the team, but a dramatic soccer failure…well that’s a different story, over 4 million hits says that it is captivating viewing!!

We live in a world hungry for failure stories. I can tell you three celebrities who have had failed plastic surgery but I can’t tell you three people who have won the Nobel Prize for Peace (oh wait…actually I can, but I can’t tell you four). Why are we so keen on the failure of others? Here’s some theories, feel free to add your own:

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: 4 Things to Know as a Trip Leader

Recently I took 20 high school students and 4 other adult leaders on a trip to New York City. It was amazing to see what God did in this group of students, and how He is using this small cross-section of our student boy to affect the other students. I’ve always thought that my job is to facilitate environments where God can show off, but was finally able this last trip to put some basic thoughts to what a “leader” should realize as they lead.

#1… You have to know everything, and nothing at the same time.
Sounds absurd I know, but the paradox is an intricate balance that is necessary. Someone has to know where you’re going and what’s going on and when it’s going on and that person is YOU if you are THE leader of a trip. At the same time you have to be humble enough in your own heart to realize that you don’t know everything. You don’t know what’s happening inside everyone’s heart. You don’t know that this kid is acting funny because it’s his first time away from home, and he needs his blankey, but can’t say that… so he’s acting like a jerk.

#2… The smallest thing can bond people.
The thought is basically this: something as basic as the fart app on your iPhone can create a moment in time where a group of students bond with a leader. So, if we don’t take chances with ourselves, put ourselves out there to potentially look foolish… if we do nothing… we can unknowingly assist in keeping them apart.

#3… Be Decisive not a dictator.
Everyone on a trip wants and needs a leader. There will come a time when there will be decisions that need to be made. Something has changed, or needs to change from the agenda and everyone will look to you to lead. In that moment, be decisive. There will be other times that everyone needs to be a part of the decision and they don’t need you to chime in… don’t be a dictator and inflict your will on everyone. The difference is slight, but necessary.

#4… Lastly… remember you’re not the leader.
I know it may sound cheesy, but if your trip has a God purpose… let Him lead. Learn the art of over praying and not over planning.

John Harney a student pastor who Twitters at @jheezy and blogs http://jharney.blogspot.com.