Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: More Than a Camp-High Conference

The worst part of summer camp? The crash! You squirrel kids away for a week, take away all their technology, and pump them full of nothing but Jesus and they conclude that week connected, hopeful, and holy.

A few weeks later….the camp-drug has been filtered out of their systems and the camp high is crash landing.

Conferences for youth workers can sometimes have the same aftermath. We attend; we spend a week away from ‘normal’. We take the wise counsel offered by Kurt, Josh, and other trusted youth workers to glean the most from our week ‘in the bubble.’ We go home. And after a few weeks of board meetings, parent confrontations, and pastoral smack-downs, our camp high has waned.

How do we make the conference experience more than a camp high?

1. Reflect. Journal. Blog. As God reveals truths to you, write them down. On days when you question His existence, those notes will be important to you!
2. Buy a CD or DVD from the sessions that impacted you most. On dark days, pull those out and revisit what was most inspiring to you.
3. Grab some downloads of sessions you wanted to catch, but had to miss because of scheduling (or napping!) Consider this your ‘nicotine patch’. Schedule some time every month to listen to a new session. Not only do you get continuing education year round, it’s sure to remind you what was best about the conference you attended as it sharpens you personally and professionally.
4. Continue the relationships you built through that week. (Yes, you should be building relationships throughout the week.) We’ve all watched those camp friendships go by the wayside a few weeks after camp has concluded. But with so many ways to stay connected, there’s no longer excuse for that. Maintain those relationships — maintain community.

I’ll confess. I’ve been in youth ministry for 23 years. (Yes….old.) I’ve been to at least 23 conferences. No one — NO ONE — does it like Simply Youth Ministry Conference. They embrace core values that really set them apart from every other educational experience I’ve ever had as a youth worker. That’s probably because they so skillfully intertwine education with relationship. I left that conference feeling valued, known, and understood. I left with ideas, tips, and truths that I am still applying today (3 years later.) I left with friendships that are deep and life-changing for me. I had never known a true connection with other youth workers until SYMC. (I’m going to blog some of those stories over the next two months!) After two decades of bouncing from conference to conference based largely on the quality of the brochure, I left with a commitment to return to the Simply Youth Ministry Conference annually.

Conferences no longer should be solely about playing a better game or building a better Bible study. You can get more than that. You can grab a year-long lifeline that pushes amazing education and training while embracing you, friending you, knowing you, and loving you. Go register….right now!

Darren is a veteran youth pastor (that’s code for old and in it for a long time) and co-founder of Millennial Influence – a resource for parents & youth pastors, including Mi Podcast – a weekly podcast for parents of teenagers. Check out his blog at http://everyonescalledtoyouthministry.com/

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Confessions of a Youth Pastor

I have been a youth pastor for 8 years now at the same church. I have had many pieces of graduation cake and have many awesome memories. Sometimes I can’t believe I am being paid for what I do. Sometimes I don’t think I am paid enough. I am getting older and don’t understand all the popular things in your high schools and each year the culture seems harder for me to figure out.

I often don’t feel equipped for the ministry God has led me towards. Sometimes I doubt a few hours of truth a week can compete with the endless hours of lies heard at school, on tv, online, and even from some parents. Am I making a spiritual dent?

I am not an outgoing, guitar totting, tech savvy, or an athlete that will amaze you with my awesomeness. Yet, I care about the students who walk through the doors of our church. My heart is that they will know they are loved by God so much that Jesus was the price to buy back their souls from grasp of sin. I want them to know they are valuable and have talents that God has given them to make a difference in their world. I want them to be people that worship with an inner sense of gratitude. I want them to serve others out of compassion rather than compulsion. I want them to have a hunger to know God more deeply and live more faithfully.

I ponder about those students I have not yet met. I dream that when a student comes into our modest youth room they will feel safe and know they are appreciated and respected. I pray that we can create a zone free of the bullying and competition that is too common today so that masks and walls can come down. I want students to feel this is their group, they want to be here, and they are growing spiritually from our time together. That church is at least as important as sports and music which are here today and gone tomorrow.

I confess that at times I have prioritized just making it though a lesson, instead of really listening to your hearts. I confess that sometimes I want to have control rather than let the Holy Spirit speak. Sometimes I spend more time planning a game than I do praying for my students. I pray that God will forgive me. Students will you forgive me for where I have not been the leader that I should have been? Will you help me refocus this group to the place that God wants us to be? Will you join me for the next chapter?

The last time I slowed down long enough to breathe was: Just now. The reason I’m going (or want to go) to the 2012 Simply Youth Ministry Conference is to breathe, to pray, and to ask God what those next steps will look like. *I am not alone.*

Posted anonymously with permission.

Josh GriffinMore PostsWhy I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus

A video that’s getting a lot of play in these parts – called Why I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus.

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Josh GriffinMore PostsThe Strength of Stories

I have preached a lot of sermons and heard even more in my life in the church and each time as I prepare, my hope is that each time I prepare, that some part of what I am teaching would go from head knowledge to heart and God would speak through my teaching and He would transform lives as a result.

This unfortunately is not always that case and sometimes those well-prepped and researched talks fall on arid and crumbly soil. While this can be really discouraging, what amazes me is the fact that while sermons can often be forgotten or tuned out, there is something powerful and disarming about a student or leader sharing their testimony. Make them part of you youth program and here’s why:

Stories are personal and real: What I love about testimonies is that they are a story that isn’t over, they are in process and there is something exciting about that. For students to hear where their friends are really at, what they have struggled with, been through and experienced and how God has been faithful through all of it, they hear that. Students crave authenticity and can smell disingenuous people a mile away; testimonies are a window into the inner workings or someone’s very personal Christian walk.

Stories are hard to refute: When I am talking to my non-Christian friends or skeptical students, they often have well-rehearsed arguments about why God can’t exist and have opinions on the validity of the Bible. They can refute God to certain extent, but cannot deny what He has done in someone’s life. Tangible encounters with God, sudden and dramatic heart change, miraculous healing, freedom from sin. All of these are part of student’s story, and those are hard to argue against.

Stories bring the Bible to life: For students who are new in their faith or just seeking, the Bible is a not a book that they know well or at all. So when we teach from it, it’s not always easy for them to understand how the Bible can actually impact and affect their life. But when you hear students sharing stories about their life verses and how God used a certain scripture to transform their heart and life. Stories bring the Bible to life for other students.

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsWe Like Tesoro

This weekend we announced the school lineup for the now-annual You Own the Weekend series coming up in HSM. Then we played the infamous (and just short of 100,000 views!) video from the very first time we ever had a completely student-run service. Haven’t seen We Like Tesoro yet? Pure gold.

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Josh GriffinMore PostsHow to Get the Most Out of a Youth Ministry Conference

Our favorite time of the year is quickly approaching — the Simply Youth Ministry Conference is just around the corner. This March in Louisville we’re going to be hanging with 3,000 of our closest youth ministry friends. Hope you can join us! Even if you aren’t coming to SYMC, the chances are pretty good you will find yourself at some sort of conference in the future. Here are a few thoughts to make the most of your next youth ministry conference or training event:

Connect with people
Don’t be “that guy” (the guy who works way too hard to network, rub shoulders, etc.), but if you only use your time to catch a few workshops and sessions then you may be missing out on an opportunity to talk to some really insightful people.

Workshop presenters are insightful people, and are surprisingly open to the idea of sharing a coffee or a meal (especially if you schedule after they are done with their speaking schedule), but don’t make the mistake of thinking the “experts” are the only folks worth learning from! We could make a really strong argument that the best folks to rub shoulders with and get to know at a conference are the in-the-trenches men and women who have a story to share from last night’s youth group, not the one they led fifteen years ago (ouch….zinger!).

Ditch a session
This one stings to write as some of the people responsible for what happens during the general sessions. I’d (Josh) like to think that I create something so compelling you would never consider this! But time away from the church is precious and rare, a long dinner or conversation that shouldn’t end might be the best use of your time.

Inside tip: conferences kick off the conference right, if you’re gonna slip out of one, don’t miss the first big session for sure!

Sleep in late
You probably don’t sleep enough. Sleep in. You have our permission.

Get in early or stay an extra day
Arrive a day early, or stay an extra day to veg out a little bit. Your church (or in many cases, you) paid a lot to be there for the weekend — so take your time going home. Take a day to debrief, visit Disneyland or a spend time observing a youth ministry/leader you follow who lives in the area.

Be engaged
When Francis Chan speaks, everyone listens. Actually, many people can’t resist checking their email or texting funny observations to the youth pastor across the convention center instead of being fully engaged. Don’t quench the Spirit (just played that card) by sneaking looks at your cell phone.

Inside tip: don’t write off a speaker because you have never heard of them. Or because you have heard of them and don’t like what you’ve heard. Prepare to be surprised!

Hope to see you at SYMC in March!

This post was written by Josh Griffin and Kurt Johnston and originally appeared as part of Simply Youth Ministry Today free newsletter. Subscribe to SYM Today right here.

Josh GriffinMore PostsStand to Reason Student-Friendly Website

Wanted to give a quick plug for the website of our speaker this weekend at HSM. Stand to Reason has put together a student-friendly apolgetics website that might have some great resources for you to check out! STRPlace.org

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsXXXChurch.com and X3Watch

Yesterday’s poll on youth workers and pornography raised a few eyebrows to say the least … without a doubt there is a problem here. First step: get help from XXXChurch.com with their fantastic X3Watch software. Do it now.

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