Josh GriffinMore PostsHSM’s Grocery Giveaway Highlight Video

HSM Grocery Giveaway from HSM on Vimeo.

A little video made to help celebrate HSM’s Grocery Giveaway last weekend. Taking time to celebrate what we’ve accomplished together is a simple way to help students who are observing to take another step toward participating.

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Josh GriffinMore PostsThe Sunday School Hall of Fame

I liked the blog post over on Holy Soup yesterday – talking about a lady who was recently introduced into the Sunday School Hall of Fame (which I didn’t know even existed and could easily nominate some of the shapers of my faith as well). Thom lists out some great thank you’s to people whose amazing contributions to the kingdom are largely overlooked in the church. Here are a few thank you, hit the link above for the rest:

  1. Knowing my name, and the names of my family members.
  2. Urging me to call you simply by your first name.
  3. Spending time with my son, providing him with a formative adult Christian friend.
  4. Demonstrating, through your life, how to keep the faith in tough personal times.
  5. Praying for me.
  6. Refusing the temptation to pass along gossip.
  7. Your thoughtful hand-written notes.
  8. Doing what’s right, rather than what’s denominationally correct.
  9. Allowing volunteers to run with their ministry passions.
  10. Your eagerness to learn–even from non-ministry voices.

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Josh GriffinMore PostsDo Something Series Arc

This past weekend we started a series called Do Something – we did something similar a couple of years ago with great success and thought it was time to bring it back again. Here’s the 2-week series arc where we’re hoping to take students:

WEEK 1: Christmas Shoe Boxes
This weekend we teach about the needs right here in Orange County. Santa Ana is one of the poorest cities in America, and they are our neighbor. We’ll pack shoe boxes for our Food Bank to give away during the holidays as people come in to get free groceries. At the end of each service we planned to take a group photo that would end up on Facebook and get tagged by everyone as well.

WEEK 2: Fallen Soldiers, Persecuted Church, HIV/AIDS
The second week of the series the plan is to have students write letters to the children of soldiers who have been killed in the war. We are bringing in a chaplain to speak to the students as well. After that we’ll highlight the persecuted church and have a guest speaker share about HIV/AIDS and what students can do to help in our community.

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Josh GriffinMore PostsFree Thanksgiving Lesson for Your Youth Group

The guys over at Youth Ministry 360 have offered up a FREE Thanksgiving lesson for youth groups to use – we might be adapting it and using it as part of our Thanksgiving weekend as well. Thought you should know about it (and the other great stuff they’ve got over there) so there you go. Now … GO DOWNLOAD IT ALREADY!

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Josh GriffinMore Posts4 Changes to Consider When You Stop Believing

This week I’ve talked to a couple youth workers who had come down with the same symptoms of a serious disease that infects all of us from time to time: they stopped believing in their church. We’ve all been there (if you haven’t welcome to your first few months in youth ministry – I promise you it is just ahead). So what is your response?

Time for a change in attitude
Quite often when you stop believing in your church or leadership it is time for prayer, not departure. Seasons of discord and discontent are common in ministry – your first response to a frustration should be prayer and consideration to the fact you may just be out of line. Ask God to show you were you need to change, rather than quickly dismiss your inadequacies, arrogance or pride. A just a little heads up – usually you don’t see yourself very well and someone will have to help you with your attitude adjustment. It won’t feel very good.

Time for a change in your job description
Most frustrations can be addressed by a simple change in a job description. Did your youth ministry position recently morph into an associate pastor type of role? Does your job look WAY different than what was pitched to you when you were hired? If you’re feeling it right now, write up some adjustments to your description (or help yourself by writing an official job description if your church never gave you one) that is fulfilling of your responsibilities and calling.

Time for a change in your leader
It’s possible that the leadership you report to needs to change. It will be very difficult to truly discern this – they need to sense God’s Spirit leading them and hear the words of wisdom in their Christian community. Pray that God will open their eyes to poor leadership decisions and pray that you may have a role in helping shape the vision which you are about to abandon because you’re giving up hope.

Time for a change in where you serve
If it isn’t an attitude problem on your part. If your job cannot be edited and adjusted to be a better fit. If your leader is unwilling or unable to change, you might need to begin praying about what God has next for you. When you stop believing in a church or a leader I believe you are quite possibly in the early stages of transition. I put this option last for a reason – this is usually what I flirt with first when I’m losing the vision for the church. Fight through the other steps first, and if/when you get here, pray for clarity and wisdom.

To youth workers who are hurting … I’ve walked that road in the past, and still dabble in it now from time to time. Don’t stop believing … and when you do check your heart, your role, your leader and if God wants to make a change.

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsTeaching Junior Highers About Sex

Kurt just posted the 3-week series arc for their series about sex in our Wildside (junior high) ministry the past month. Worth checking out for inspiration for your own series, and be sure to head over there to check out some other insights about teaching about sex/relationships to junior highers, too.

Week 1: Developing Healthy Friendships With Each Other. We simply took a look at some of the differences between guys and girls, and how an understanding of some of these differences can help us be better friends with each other.

Week 2: Dating: We took a look at what begins to happen when a friendship becomes more than just a friendship. We addressed such questions as: When is it okay to start dating? Who should I date? How should I date? What role do should my parents play in all of this?

Week 3: Sex This weekend, we will wrap the series up by talking about sex. I feel a little overwhelmed because ONE lesson on sex isn’t enough. I am afraid I will try to cram too much into the lesson, thus making it too complex, and more confusing than helpful.

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Josh GriffinMore PostsHSM Weekend in Review: Volume 160

Weekend Teaching Series: Do Something (series premiere, week 1 of 2)
Sermon in a Sentence: We stop talking about serving and Do Something – this week we pack Christmas shoe boxes for needy children in our county.
Service Length: 59 minutes

Understandable Message: This first weekend of this short series before the holidays was designed around Operation Christmas Child boxes. We purchased and collected donations to help fill a to of boxes during the service. Rather than teach about serving and making a difference in the world we sang a few songs, shared the heart behind it then did something right there! From time to time we have big serve projects, but this was incredibly fun and made for a very different type of service than normal. At the last minute our church decided to print up our own shoeboxes and give them out as part of our food pantry and holiday ministries, too. Fun to play a part in helping those in need in our area.

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: We kicked off the service with a fun rendition of the new Justin Bieber single Drummer Boy. The whole youth room was decorated like Christmas (even though it is early November as I type this). We also had a fun video about how NOT to pack a Christmas shoe box. Lots of student leaders serving as greeters, and in audio/visual areas, as well as inspecting boxes that students had filled.

Music Playlist: Drummer Boy, Joy to the World, Go

Favorite Moment: Without a doubt the best part of the weekend is seeing the letters that students wrote inside the shoe boxes. Some were hilarious, all were heartfelt. This was also a big weekend for the newest member of our team, a Life Group leader named Hannah who ran point on overseeing the whole thing. She did a GREAT job!

Up next: Do Something (week 2 of 2)

Josh GriffinMore PostsDrummer Boy Opener

Drummer Boy from HSM on Vimeo.

Amazing cover of Justin Bieber’s new Christmas single Drummer Boy to open up our services for the Do Something series. Is it a little early for Christmas? Yup, but students packed Operation Christmas child boxes this weekend so we thought it would be fun to help get them in the Christmas spirit during the packing. Fun!

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Josh GriffinMore PostsHow Not to Pack Christmas Shoe Boxes

Shoe Boxes with Parker from HSM on Vimeo.

Another in this fun series about a really terrible leader named Parker. His previous video helping promote Life Groups is one of my favorites! This weekend Parker helped us learn how to pack shoeboxes for Christmas during our Do Something series. Love it!

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Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Protecting the Pulpit – Good or Bad

In the past few months I have had the pleasure of visiting several different youth groups, some of them big and some of them small. As I sat and enjoyed listening to the various people who took to the platform to speak and share, I noticed two distinct value systems around pulpit ministry in youth groups.

The first was a very calculated and intentional approach to selecting those that would speak to the students, the other was a much more casual approach, allowing students to speak as well as leaders. I am not totally sure where I lean to, because I think there is tremendous value in both and perhaps the answer lies in the middle.

PROTECTED PULPIT
This idea would place high importance of having only the best, most well spoken speaker in front of your students. Choosing those who have the most thorough knowledge of the Bible to be the core speakers to your students. These people are effective and deliberate communicators.

Pros:
I love the idea of always bringing the best to students and choosing to only put the best most qualified people in front of your students means that they are going to get a solid, scripture based message every time they come to youth. Students deserve the best leaders and that includes preachers and having someone communicate a message well increases the likelihood that the students will remember what was said.

Cons:
If not balanced out, it may seem as though pulpit ministry is only for those who are well polished “professional Christians” who have a clear calling to preaching ministry. This approach can come at the detriment of students and leaders who might be called to the same, but have not place to explore those gifts and can make attaining that level seem out of reach.

OPEN PULPIT
The idea of students and leaders sharing the things that God is teaching them; to me, is inspiring. Allowing students to be a part of the preaching and exploring their gifts and potential calling, it is just so real.

Pros:
There is honesty, transparency and raw faith when students come share about what God is doing their lives. I have seen so many times where a student’s testimony has had a greater impact than the best-crafted sermon. When students share about their faith journey it comes across real and authentic and for the audience, it portrays a faith that is relatable and attainable.

Cons:
If unchecked this can be somewhat of a disaster, where students are allowed to teach, or share their testimonies it can quickly go from God entered to “me” centered. I once found out afterwards that a student told multiple lies in his testimony just to impress our group. If we are not careful, and expecting students and leaders to be prepared to share, the pulpit can become a soapbox for anyone who wants to talk, which can compromise the purpose of the teaching time.

My encouragement to you is to find ways to keep the pulpit open, open to those whose desire is not to glorify themselves, but glorify God through their speaking, those that want to bring a word, a truth. It is up to us as youth workers to make sure that when someone takes the stage, they are prepared and ready. That does not mean, perfect and professional but sharing a Christ-centered message that is from the heart.

Geoff Stewart is the Pastor of Jr & Sr High School for Journey Student Ministries at Peace Portal Alliance Church and regularly contributes GUEST POSTS to MTDB. Be sure to check out his Twitter stream for awesome ministry goodness. Want to get in on the fun and write up a guest post yourself? See how right here.