My friend Riley just sent over some fun desktop backgrounds for me to share here on the blog. Enjoy!
JG
Hilarious Hunger Games parody video the team made this week to promote HSM Summer Camp. One of my new favorites!
JG
A day off is an absolute requirement in youth ministry. Simply put: take a day off or you won’t last. Here are a few ideas to make the most of your much-needed day off.
Get with…or away from…people
Some of you need to be with people on your day off (friends, family, etc.) because they energize you and help you make the most of a day off. Others need to avoid people altogether because you find refreshment in being alone. Whichever way you lean…lean hard that direction on your day off!
Reconnect with God
Youth ministry usually only has two speeds: Fast, and super fast! If you are anything like us, it is often difficult to connect with God at any level of real intimacy during the hustle and bustle of a typical week. A day off is the perfect time to do just that! In fact, tomorrow’s edition of the SYM Today will be a devotional you can use on your next day off.
Do something simple and fun
Youth ministry fatigue usually sets in when you aren’t getting enough rest or are all work and no play. So, find an afternoon soon that you can set aside to do something fun that you normally don’t have time for. Play 9 holes of golf, go for a jog, browse through a book store, knit a sweater (that’s what Josh usually likes to do) or catch a matinee movie.
Get away from it all
Sometimes there’s nothing you can do about feeling drained without just simple taking some time off. It wasn’t too long ago that I (Josh) took a full week to go completely offline and spending time with the family. Fight fatigue with fun. Hit the beach. Go to Disneyland. Leave your laptop, turn off your phone and get away.
Oh, and one last thing: often times a game-changing or potentially painful decision sits right in front of you and robs you of your passion and energy even on a day off. So just make the call! You might be surprised at the freedom and renewed excitement you feel once you get that out of the way. If it is a tough conversation, pray about it and then have it. Tackle that energy-busting obstacle you’ve been putting off and then turn off, too!
This post was written by Josh Griffin and Kurt Johnston and originally appeared as part of Simply Youth Ministry Today free newsletter. Subscribe to SYM Today right here.
We just finished up a huge evangelism effort during our The Book series (40 Days in the Word church-wide campaign student series) where we ended with a Life Book saturation. We put together a whole bunch of packs of 10. Then we put a little card on top that said this:
These are Life Books – it is a tool that includes the Gospel that will change your life. The top copy is for you, the 9 others are for your friends. When you give one away, write their name on this card and remember to pray for them that they will know and follow the ways of Jesus, too.
1 ___________________________
2 ___________________________
3 ___________________________
4 ___________________________
5 ___________________________
6 ___________________________
7 ___________________________
8 ___________________________
9 ___________________________
For “Everyone who calls on the name of the LORD will be saved.” But how can they call on him to save them unless they believe in him? And how can they believe in him if they have never heard about him? And how can they hear about him unless someone tells them? And how will anyone go and tell them without being sent? That is why the Scriptures say, “How beautiful are the feet of messengers who bring good news!” Romans 10:13-15
I’m really proud of our students – a TON of them took a stack over that weekend are actively sharing their faith with their friends. We ended up with a few packs on the table in the back of the youth room that are still being whittled down each weekend!
JG
The graduation gift set from Simply Youth Ministry is a great idea for your seniors that are heading off to college next year. It includes 3 great resources – 99 Thoughts for College-Age People, Creative Times with God and Live Large, Be Different, Shine Bright.
Want to get 5 sets for free – sent right to your door just in time for the end of the school year and senior weekend? All you have to do is leave a comment on this post here on the blog and you’re in on the giveaway. I’ll pick one comment at random on Wednesday. Worth playing for? Hope you win!
JG
This is a response guest post to this article: Just-Graduated Seniors Serving in Youth Group: Too Soon?
There are few things more exciting than getting seniors to not just to be leaders, but to really buy into the ministry at their church. That moment where they turn into more than just a consumer, and a major contributor in the lives of other students. While most churches offer serve opportunities all year, it is different when you are just out of high school and leading.
I have read things such as Sticky Faith from the Fuller Youth Institute and the tools from Orange and the reThink group – it affirms both practically and statically that if we do not plug students in, their chances of continuing in church is slim. I deal and wrestle with these same questions when it comes to seniors serving. Currently, I serve on a church staff in its Jr. High Ministry area. For us, like most, getting new leaders with the passion, energy, knowledge and skill is not always easy.
The Pros and Cons from Geoff’s original post were great – it covered the bases of what we all should be considering when we look at seniors. However, when we move from looking at the plan to implementing a plan, there can be some growing pains.
We all want something. At our church we want a balance- to maximize the pros and cut down on the cons. Then, to look at the cons that we have left and create a platform to work on it, leader by leader.
The following is our plan for leaders, It is not perfect, but it is a start.
First: Identification of these students has to start early, and we cant be the only one looking. Include veteran leaders, other staff, and maybe even some parents that can speak constructively into the ministry. The goal is to identify and develop leaders, not to limit the process by including only one view.
Second: Once you identify some students, approach them about becoming involved. Let them know what you and others see in them. Begin with sophomores and juniors by providing small ways to get them ready for the senior year. Look for time that they can spend with leaders. Invite them to fourth and fifth grade events or to Jr . High nights. The goal isn’t for them just to have fun or socialize, but will give active leaders a great chance to identify some of the “cons” in the life of the student. This identification gives us the road map of what to work on on their way to senior year.
Third: Once our students are seniors, we bring them on as sidekicks with our Jr. High Ministry. They are partnered with an established leader who serves as a mentor to them in order to fill in the spaces of their training as the year goes on. As the senior student has questions, the leader answers it. As the senior makes mistakes or worries if they are “doing things right,” they have a mentor that works with and encourages them, and continues the developing process.
Once they make it through that senior year serving as sidekick, if they passed our standards that are in place for every leader of any age, they are placed with the sixth grade guys or girls. They are watched and still trained and developed, but basically, have a senior year of more intentional training time.
As an extra bonus and something that I would really love to begin doing, seniors would work closely with leaders in our fourth and fifth grade environment. The plan would be for the seniors to move up with the fifth grades to sixth grade when they both graduate. Talk about hitting identifying, assessing, developing and great transition into Jr. High all in one!
I would love to hear the ways that you do it. Leave a comment or hit me up.
Justin Herman is the Jr. High Minister at Christ Presbyterian Church in Huntington Beach, CA. He has been in youth ministry for seven years. Justin speaks at camps and FCA meetings, writes, and is a social media fanatic. He was born in NYC, raised in Buffalo, educated in Missouri, and now lives in California. You can connect with Justin @HeyJustinHerman or Facebook.com/HeyJustinHerman.
Here’s a recap video that one of our students (David Walker) made for our Spring Break Serve Trip. Hoping to build a culture of service over Spring Break – we had a ton of it in the past and this is a great first step back!
JG
When I was a kid we would watch reruns of Happy Days. There really isn’t much that I remember about the show with the exception of the Fonz’s power to fix things with a simple nudge, pound or smack. I’ve tried this method myself. The dishwasher isn’t working; I kick it. The car doesn’t sound right; I smack it on the hood. If I don’t look good in the mirror, I punch it…that one hardly ever works.
In ministry I’m sure there is a whole slew of things that we wish we could just smack, punch and kick (I’m not talking about the teens) and have it start working. If our systems and structures aren’t running smoothly then ministry just becomes a game of survival. We need people to show up on time, equipment to run, meetings to end and communication to flow; but, if that’s not happening then neither is our ministry. So, we look for a quick fix; but, quick isn’t what we always need. Instead we need to take a simple; yet, thorough approach. And, that starts with:
The 10,000 Foot View – Sometimes we just need to take a step back and look at the whole picture. When fire fighters approach a burning building, first thing they are told is to take a step back and analyze the entire situation. Where is the source of the problem? Where are the trouble areas? What’s my best approach? Answer those questions then proceed.
Partnering Up – The tendency is to figure a problem out on our own; however, with only one set of eyes we’re bound to miss something. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 tells us: Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. If you really want the best outcome to a situation make sure you partner up.
Setting A Timeline – While it’s great to take our time and really analyze a problem, if we wait too long we could discover new consequences from inactivity. If I have a leaking roof and wait on it too long, it could create more damage if I don’t address it right away. Just as we set a timeline for our goals, we should do the same with issues we need to address. Don’t be afraid to lean in, because God is right there with you.
Reviewing And Revisiting – If you figure out a problem on the first go, that’s awesome; however, it is always wise to check twice. If you are addressing a student’s behavior, follow up and see how they are doing. If you are trying a new format, review it with your team after a few weeks. If you’ve cut a program or event, get feedback from people you trust.
Yes, it would be easier to just smack the problem around and have it start working; however, it’s not that easy. The steps to addressing a problem are simple; however, they take work. The most important thing we can do is to rely on God to guide us through these situations and give us the persistence and wisdom we need to fix a situation properly.
Have I missed anything? What steps would you add to address an issue or problem?
Chris Wesley is the Director of Student Ministry at Church of the Nativity in Timonium, MD. You can read more about his blog Marathon Youth Ministry.
A little bit of blog love straight out of my Moleskin journal today. At the end of my life, I want to be remembered for a few things:
Great husband/dad
More than other goal in my life I want to be a great husband and father. I love this calling and privilege and fight for it to remain in this top spot. I love being a husband and a father, but I also love being a pastor and a youth worker. These goals are all competing yet complementary. I want my wife to have the best husband in the world, my kids to have the best dad in the world. I fail at this one most often, which is frustrating to me, I still have so far to go and know I’ll never arrive. But I will try.
Good pastor
Second on my journal list is to be a good pastor. To faithfully serve the students, families and adults in the church where I serve. That I want to be laser-focused on them first in my ministry, and to build God’s kingdom through the local church. So far that has been in 2 churches over 15 years, excited about where God has me now and how I can serve His church in the future. I’m a big believer in the church (warts and all, as my mom would say), and that is something I want to be remembered for. Pastor first, speaker guy second.
Helped other youth workers
Part of my heart’s longings is to help other youth workers. Sometimes when I reflect on my ministry experiences and journey I see how God was and is preparing me to serve other youth workers. I feel privileged to have worked in healthy and unhealthy contexts, seen incredible leaders and serve incredibly bad leaders. I want to take that experience and help others that will carry the youth ministry torch long after I’m gone. Creating resources, blogging, teaching, conversations over lunch, whenever there is an opportunity to help people alongside me in the trenches.
What do you want to be remembered for?
JG
If you give LeaderTreks a little information about yourself they’ll in turn give you 50 brand new freebies from their website. Just downloaded the bundle myself and saw health assessments, team building initiatives, illustrations, Bible studies, activities and more. Good stuff!
JG