Josh GriffinMore PostsFree eBook on Connecting with Students Outside of Youth Group

During my vacation this summer we had all sorts of GUEST POSTS here on the blog. It was so successful that I now post a guest post every weekend (if you want in, send one in!). The most popular guest post this summer was from Nick, and he took his ideas and expanded them into a sweet free eBook with some other youth ministry voices and is giving it away for free on his blog. How cool is that? Download it right here!

Looking for a resource filled with creative ideas to build relationships with students? This is a free resource from Ministry Allies full of relational ministry ideas, including hanging out with students, working on projects together, going to cheer on other students together, and a ton of other great ideas.

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Using New Technology for Youth Ministry Websites

I’ll admit I was a bit scared when we launched our youth minitsry website http://www.lyf.net last year using a content management system called drupal that I was unfamiliar with. I had to learn it from scratch and was a bit hesitant but ended up loving in the end. Now our website is easy to update and is pretty unique in my opinion.

Several years ago we started using a ministry tool http://www.tuggle.it to help connect our students and leaders and give leaders the tools they needed. Yes we were on Facebook, but using new technologies like Tuggle gave us a unique web presence that created a very real environment for students to connect online.

Just this past week I launched a new website http://www.whatisyourproblem.tv using a new WordPress theme. I’ll admit I’m not 100% sure the direction of this student talk show will take but I believe allowing students the opportunity to lead is a risk worth taking.

Whatever the current state of your web presence for your youth ministry is I encourage you to try new tools and new ways of reaching teenagers online. Who knows it may turn out to be really great if you just give it a chance.

Brandon Riley is a creative media producer for Sugar Creek Baptist Church. Check out his blog at http://www.partoftheglue.com.


Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: I (Heart) Service

As technology and social capabilities grow, the chance of a church service engaging a student seems to shrink.
This scares the crap out of me.

I’m not even a youth pastor yet and I sometimes worry that students could care less about church. I don’t know what I will do the first time I can hear a full blown conversation going on while I’m preaching. I won’t know how to react when a kid answers his phone during a service. I sure as heck won’t know how to react if I can hear a kids iPod playing over the video on the screen.

Now, I pray and hope to have an incredible team of leaders someday that will defuse these situations before I explode, but it still concerns me. It concerns me because technology never stops growing, friends never stop talking, parents never stop calling during service, and students will always have short attention spans.

I never want a youth service to feel like it’s doing it’s best to compete with what’s outside the walls of the church. I believe that mindset results in cheesy presentation and superficial spirituality. I want a youth service that grabs hold of students and takes them from every struggle and care they face in the world and sets them on the lap of the Creator. I want a service that is led completely by the Holy Spirit but still connects with today’s culture. I want the videos, interactive worship, incredible presentations, and life changing message; but I want it all to come from the Heart.

I believe that is the kind of service that grabs God’s attention.

21 “I can’t stand your religious meetings. I’m fed up with your conferences and conventions. 22 I want nothing to do with your religion projects, your pretentious slogans and goals. I’m sick of your fund-raising schemes, your public relations and image making. 23 I’ve had all I can take of your noisy ego-music.When was the last time you sang to me?” (Amos 6//Message)

Shane Sanchez is a youth worker and blogger. Check out his blog here.

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Culture and Relevance

This semester I am taking a class called “Christianity and Culture.” I can tell already this class is going to have a profound impact on how I view the Church and it’s responsibility (yes, I did say responsibility) to remain relevant and impacting culture. I think the Church has done a lousy job, especially in New England, in being relevant and engaging culture. I really hope that this class will help me engage the culture and remain relevant in the community I am serving.

I thought I would write out a few tips to help people who are trying to actively engage the culture and remain relevant. Culture is: the what, the where, the when, and the why of a who.

The Who
The who is any group of people you are trying to engage. In my position, the who are Middle Schoolers.

The What
The what is a great start to understanding a group culturally. What are people listening to (music AND influential people)? What are people watching (movies and TV)? What are peoples’ values?

The Where
Didn’t someone once say, “Location, location, location”? The where is the places and location people are hanging out. The where is a location that can be tied to people. The big where right now in my culture (college age) is Starbucks. A lot of college students can be found in a Starbucks or similar places. But the importance of knowing the where is huge – it means you know a location where you can go to the people you are trying to engage. Spiritually, the where takes on another aspect when trying to engage people when you look at where a person is spiritually and trying to engage them at that point. I love the story of Jesus and the woman at the well (John 4), because He met her both where she was at (location) and where she was at spiritually.

The When
The when is the time period in which the people you are trying to engage are living. It sounds sci-fiish (new word I invented) because there hasn’t been a time machine invented yet (at least not that I know of). But unfortunately, the Church has done a bad job of reaching people when they’re at. The 21st century is really the technological age. Especially for teenagers, the era of snail mail is over. Some people I know send and receive several thousand text messages a month! The when teenagers are at is a very technology and entertainment driven age. But if you’re trying to engage Baby Boomers or Gen Xers the when will be much different.

The Why
The why is a hard one to explain or describe. But when you know the why of a culture, you’ve got it and you’ll be engaging the culture relevantly and right where they’re at. The why is people’s motivations. Why does a group of people do what they do? When you get to the point of understanding and knowing the why of a group of people, you’ve truly become part of the culture.

Tim Viola is the Middle School Team Leader at Trinity Evangelical Church and blogs over on LifeAsIronman. If you’re interested in writing up a weekend GUEST POST on MTDB, submit your idea and article today!

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Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: 6 Thoughts on Networking

Networking can be difficult in our already, way too busy lives. But there are many of us who see youth ministry networks as an important way to re-energize, fellowship, and unity. Networking happens to be a passion of mine so I thought I would share with you six things that are important to think about when starting or maintaining a youth ministry network in your community.

1) Focus on soul care: When youth pastors get together we tend to create things, this happens naturally. However we often forget that part of why we network is to recharge, and encourage each other. So many youth workers are on all the time, let meeting together be focused on relaxing, praying and laughing together, not busting out our schedules for a collaborative event.

2) Tell stories: Veterans and rookies, we have all had that one time, great ministry blunder. It’s important for us to remember where we came from, but also share success and encourage one another with stories of student’s whose lives have been changed. Be careful not to let it become a senior pastor or parent bashing session. It’s important to be honest, but it is equally important to respect people and those who are in authority over us.

3) Be intentional about time together: Get creative with the meeting place, or what activities you do together; being respectful of people’s time of course.

4) Split responsibilities: Don’t let one person handle everything. Besides, shared responsibility keeps the network from dying when that one person leaves (the number one reason I hear networks collapse).

5) Commit to each other: A network doesn’t work very well when there is no one to “network” with. Be consistent with meeting times and be realistic about how often you meet.

6) (Last but not least) Food: Good fellowship revolves around good food! Take turns providing it or see if a local coffee shop will donate food and beverage for everyone (the worst they could say is no).

Jonas Knudsen is a youth worker who loves students and blogs at Raising Ebenezer. If you want to write up a guest post for next weekend, submit your article this week.

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Assessing Your Students

How many times have you heard this from a member or your congregation, “When I was in youth group, we did (fill in the blank). You should try to do that.”? When that person said that to you, did you slap them in the face and say, “Wake up!”? I’m just kidding about the slap in the face, but not kidding about the “wake up” comment. I couldn’t tell you how many times people have come up to me and tried to tell me that I should model our current youth ministry program after their youth group 20-30 years ago. I am sure you have had similar experiences.

What I feel that people fail to realize is that the tactics youth ministers used 20-30 years ago are probably not very effective in reaching today’s youth. A perfect example for this is the newspaper industry. Just recently the Denver Rocky Mountain Post and the Seattle Post-Intelligencer had to close business while the Philadelphia Inquirer just declared bankruptcy. How could this happen? These are big newspapers in big markets! What could have caused these newspapers to struggle this much?

What happened was that times changed and more and more people were getting their [the newspapers] information for free off of their website. Why would anyone buy a newspaper when they can get the exact same information for free!?! We have become a digital world and less people are buying papers. Because less people are buying papers, ad agencies are spending less to promote in newspapers. Ad revenue is the money flow that all newspapers need. These newspapers (and probably more to come) have failed to adapt to the change in the world thinking and have paid the price for it.

The Washington Times, however, have taken a radical approach to this change. For starters, they stopped producing a Saturday newspaper in order to save money. Then, on March 24th, 2009, they hired Thomas Culligan to serve a new position called “Chief Revenue and Marketing Officer”. In a statement, the Washington Times said, “Mr. Culligan will lead the Times’ advertising and marking departments as the company carries out an ‘aggressive transformation’ from a printed product to a multimedia company serving customers in the local, national and global markets.”[1][1] The Washington Times was proactive in responding to the change in how people are receiving information. With this hire and change in approach, did the Washington Times sacrifice their core values and mission? NO! They simply changed their approach at reaching their audience.

How does this relate to assessing where your students are at?

It relates because just like newspapers, youth ministry needs to be think of adaption. The way we adapt is through evaluation. We live in a post-modern world. If we are still doing ministry the same way our youth ministers and pastors did when we were young, we have failed! Now, don’t get me wrong. You can still have the same goals such as community building and outreach. Those are good goals that can stand the test of time. But, if you approach community building and outreach the same youth ministers did in the 70s or 80s, we are missing our potential. Most importantly, students are missing out because we are failing to reach the teens of today.

That is why it is important to know your students. What is the make up of your students? Are they churched or unchurched? Are they public, private or home schooled? Where are they at with Christ? Do they have a relationship with Christ? If not, how are you going to reach them for Christ? Do you have any leader students? What do are their interests? These are just a few questions you can be asking yourself about your students. By answering them, you are beginning to understand who they are and what makes them tick. Once you understand your students better, you can start reaching them for Christ in a more effective way.

Understanding your students will help be more effective in organizing your gatherings. For example, if you decide to start doing expository teaching, but your youth are not spiritually mature to handle that depth, then you will not be as effective in reaching them. A topical teaching approach would be better. In the same way, this applies to how you organize your meetings. If you decide, without knowing where you youth are at first, that you want to be outreach focused in which you organize your meeting times with all fun and games, then conclude with a brief message, yet fail to have anything for strong believers to go deeper, you may might not be adequately addressing the needs of your youth to take that next step in Christ. Whatever your situation is, in order to move forward and producing real fruit, it is always best if you know where your students are at first!

Once you have identified who they are, you can begin to set up a strategy for reaching them. A few years ago, I took a hard look at my ministry. Out of that time of assessment and evaluation, I discovered that I was not reaching my students where they were and taking them to that next level. In some ways it was very difficult to realize that we were not being as effective as we could be. But, out of that time came a new strategy for the program (we will talk about developing a strategic plan in my next post). Out of your time of student assessment, may come a time of re-strategizing. Or, it may just confirm what you are doing is reaching your students for Christ.

As you begin to look at understanding your students and possibly re-strategize how you reach them, I want to encourage you to talk to your Senior Pastor (or Senior Director) about what you are processing and learning about your students. I have found that, when you are thinking about taking a shift in where your program is headed, it is best to make sure your Supervisor knows what is going on and why are thinking about this. Then, they know what is going on and can help you process further. Also, this helps because if someone complains about things, your Supervisor will already know what is going on and can be supportive, rather than caught off guard.

I want to be clear here. This is not an evaluation where you are looking at your mission statement and focus on being purposeful (we will talk about that in our next post). This is an assessment of the progress you are making at reaching students in this post-modern world. You can have the best purposes out there, but if you do not understand your students or the students you are trying to reach, your purposes will fail. Whether you are new to your ministry position or have been there for a few years, it is always good to take an honest, regular assessment of where you are at in reaching students for Christ.

The key to this assessment is deciding how you judge success. For each ministry it will be different. It could be having the most students go to summer camp so they can hear about Christ and be changed. For others it could be having a solid and growing small group ministry. It does not matter what you are striving to be — that is between you and God. It only matters how you judge your success. Once you are able to determine how you will judge your success, you can begin the process of knowing just how effective you are in reaching students for Christ.

By understanding your audience and setting realistic goals to encourage them in their relationship with Christ, you have a way to adequately judge your success and be more effective at taking them to the next level in Christ. Let’s not have our program die off, like some of the newspapers out there, because we fail to adapt our program to these post-modern teens. We can be more effective. It begins with taking an assessment of who they are.

TAKE A MINUTE and…

1. Begin to assess your students. Print out (or write out) every student in your program. Then, begin to write down notes about who they are. Where are they with Christ? What are their life interests? How is their home life? You may not know all the details about each student, so ask your volunteer leaders to help you (make it a leaders meeting time in which you are critically looking at these students).

2. After you assess who they are, start looking at how you are doing ministry. Is your ministry effectively reaching these students for Christ? If not, how can you begin to change and adapt?

Tom Pounder is the youth pastor at Cedar Run Community Church in Virginia and blogs at Not a Mega Church?

Josh GriffinMore PostsWant to GUEST POST on MoreThanDodgeball? Here’s How!

After the amazing success of being gone most of August and pre-posting GUEST POSTS almost the entire month – I’ve decided to post at least one guest post every weekend here on the blog. Want to get your article posted here – get a hold of me! I’ve already got one for this weekend, but would love to post your best stuff here next week. Send it in today!

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsTop GUESTS POSTS During Vacation

Wondered which of the fantastic guest posts was the most popular? Keep in mind some have only been online for a few days and others were up the whole month. Either way, here’s the top 10 so you can check out the best of the submissions if you missed one – and thanks to everyone who submitted and everyone who was published:

10. GUEST POST: What Do You Do All Day?
9. GUEST POST: Facebook – Spiritual Dipstick
8. GUEST POST: The Compass of a Great Question
7. GUEST POST: 9 Questions to Ask When Planning a Youth Ministry Budget
6. GUEST POST: When the Youth Ministry Search Takes Longer Than Expected
5. GUEST POST: No More Silly Games
4. GUEST POST: Is Youth Ministry Worth It?
3. GUEST POST: Youth Leaders and Alcohol
2. GUEST POST: Youth Ministry Made from Scratch
1. GUEST POST: 12 Ways to Connect With Your Students Outside of Youth Group

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Sleeplessness

Last night, I awoke at 3 a.m. for no particular reason but to think. Each minute seemed like an hour. As I lay there, I thought long and hard about the details of my life and ministry right now. As I did, I surveyed and surmised the past 10-11 months of drastic change in our student ministry. I evaluated every move I could remember. I became more and more restless the more I thought about it and dwelt on it.

And then God spoke.

I won’t tell you everything He said, but I will tell you that He told me clearly that I’m spending too much time living looking over my shoulder at the past. In fact, God has shown me that I had just about gotten to the point where I am living walking backwards; that is, really ONLY focusing on what is in the past. I can’t explain how He did, but as surely as I’m typing these words He spoke to me and gave me clear instructions regarding how I need to change.

  • God is a God of opportunities.
  • God is a God of possibilites.
  • God is a God of promises.
  • God is a God of “imagine if…”
  • God is a God of “wait and see.”
  • God is a God of “follow Me.”
  • None of those have anything to do with the past.

God wants me dwelling on the past just long enough to say goodbye to it, because that’s what He’s done with it.

In fact, as I consider Jesus’ earthly ministry, He spend a good amount of time erasing people’s past and setting their eyes on Him right then and into the future.

Because no matter how I slice it, the past inevitably brings disappointment (from past failures), frustration (from lack of traction and unmet goals), and an overall malaise. And therein lays an effective weapon of the enemy, Satan. If he can get you looking behind you, you’ll not only miss the blessing of God right now, but you’ll be in no position to see what God is going to do. This one is tough, because as leaders, we’re usually naturals at evaluation and that necessitates backward glances. The problem arises when we become fixated on what was rather than that is and what is coming.

As soon as I had laid there and listened to God speak to me, I prayed (should’ve started with that) and immediately returned to a place of peace in my mind and heart and at 5 a.m. this morning, fell asleep.

Jerry Varner is a Student Discipleship Pastor in the Richmond, VA area. He’s been at it for 15+ years and only asks for 15+ more – read Jerry’s blog at http://jerrythinks.blogspot.com.

Josh GriffinMore PostsGUEST POST: Facebook — Spiritual Dipstick?

Don’t get me wrong…I like Facebook. A lot. (Although this guy makes some good points!) As a tool for youth ministry, it can be powerful. I love seeing status updates from kids about what they’re doing, seeing photos from school plays or dances and even youth group events. As a youth ministry, we’ve even utilized Facebook to create a Celebrate Youth Ministry group for announcements, events, and photos. And countless other youth ministries and Christian interest groups are doing the same.

It’s great to communicate with kids in a forum that they like, to meet them where they are. According to Facebook’s statistics page, there are over 250 million users on the site (though I can’t be sure how many are students). I love leaving encouraging messages or commenting on their photos or videos. It’s a reminder for them, and me, that youth ministry isn’t just a one-night-a-week thing for me. But it can’t be used to build meaningful relationships. I am convinced that our encouragement, our mentoring, our “doing life together” must be done face-to-face. It’s too easy for our students to hide behind technology. Tim Schmoyer shares a little on Facebook-friendship here.

But it’s also an indicator for where our students are really at spiritually. And honestly, it can be discouraging to see status updates about the latest party or pictures that show too much. But it is a great jumping-off point for challenging discussion with those students that I already have a relationship with.

Becky Albertson is an Administrative Assistant with Celebrate KIDS and Celebrate Youth.