Josh GriffinMore PostsYouth Ministry Promotion Weekend Basics

I’ve received a few questions this summer about how we do promotion (students moving up from children’s ministry into youth group)  in our student ministry and thought I would share a few things we’ve done in the past and a few things I’ve seen or would like to try soon:

Everyone moves up the same weekend every year
Promotion in our church is the same weekend for everyone across the board – there are a lot of changes in the family so we try to consolidate them into one weekend. The transition usually takes a few weeks since people may be gone on vacation or miss church that weekend, but we stack hands that throughout the life development years (birth-college) we all move up at the same time. It has been incredibly effective to be aligned from top to bottom – it may be hard to convince (or concede) to a Sunday School Superintendent or Small Group Director that this is wise, but it is well worth the effort.

We choose to move up at the end of the school year
There are pros and cons to which ever time of year you promote students – we choose the weekend immediately following the end of school or right at the beginning of summer. This makes a clean break fo seniors as well as gives freshman an easy entry point into high school ministry. You may want to make a handout or promotion video for the date you’re choosing – because clear warning of big changes ahead is always a good idea.

Promotion Weekend is a big deal
Each department has a BIG to do that weekend welcoming new students. In our High School Ministry we plan a freshman weekend which has a “get to know us” sort of vibe – lots of relational time, a parent orientation meeting, stories, history, food, giveaways, and fun. We do our best to avoid hazing, but definitely try to have some fun at our own expense – like showing pictures of ourselves when we were freshman which is incredibly embarrassing, too.

Hand over the info!
Passing along family information is critical at this stage – if you have small group information, parent emails and text numbers, get it now. In our specific case we  get incoming 7th graders info and we give the contact information of our graduating seniors to our college ministry so they can work to integrate them immediately as well. If your church is tech-savvy, this will be a dream. In some cases where data integrity isn’t a value, be prepared to get handwritten attendance sheets or worse yet, nothing at all!

Plan a big welcome event
If you’ve got a bunch of new students moving up – plan something relational for them where they can get to know some volunteers and upperclassmen. Creating a sense of community and friendship is the key to helping with transitions. Could be as simple as a Scavenger Hunt (with a freshman require in each car, for example) or a giant overnighter to kickoff the summer and welcome the newbies.

Some age groups get a Preview Weekend
In some cases, your church may decide to do a preview weekend – for example letting 6th graders come see a junior high service. Usually it is planned to acknowledge the next level of students and to give them a painless taste of what is to come. If someone is hesitant to transition usually it isn’t a big deal through the summer – but heading into this time of year (fall) the transition should be complete.

Would love any questions you have about the process in the comments – or if you do it a different way please share!

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsPOLL: When to do Promotion?


Had a youth worker last week suggest this poll idea (sorry I misplaced your email – argh!) about promotion in your youth ministry. Do you promote students at the beginning of summer or at the start of a new school year? I’ve worked in ministries on both sides of the question – curious if there is a clear winner in our community here. Vote now!

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsHSM Weekend in Review: Volume 186

Weekend Teaching Series: Senior Weekend (1-off)
Sermon in a Sentence: God is constant.
Service Length:
82 minutes

Understandable Message: This weekend the freshman were coming in hot – promotion weekend arrived and we welcomed them with open arms. This week I brought up some of our team to share their story on stage this weekend – each of them answering, “What I wish I knew when I was a freshman.” Lots of different thoughts and perspectives and each included a fill-in and a verse. I got to pull it all together at the end challenging students to follow God’s path the next 4 years of high school.

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: We played Freshman Fear Factor putting a senior girl up against a freshman guy. We made sure it was totally rigged to give the freshman victory and it was an over the top game we do a few times a year that was a massive hit. We also brought back the Other Direction music video during the countdown and used the Sitcom intro video as well.

Music Playlist: Move (MercyMe cover), Blessed be Your Name, Our God

Favorite Moment: Spontaneously during the 1st service I started something we ended up doing the other 3 as well. During my wrap-up I asked all of the new freshman and our team to come on stage so we could pray over them. It gave me a chance to cast a vision for what could be with them, as well as commission their next4 years. Such a fun and I hope powerful moment!

Up next: SHAPE & Ministry Fair (1-off)

Josh GriffinMore PostsWelcome to HSM! Letter to Parents of Incoming Freshman

Here’s a letter that might be something good for you to steal and use in your ministry! Apparently I wrote it a few years ago (don’t remember it until it was discovered recently) and edited it for use this year again. Here you go:

WELCOME TO HSM

Greetings Parents!

Over the last 15 years of working with high school students I’ve found that one of the most difficult hurdles to overcome is the transition from junior high to high school. For many students, they never get to experience all that our high school ministry offers because they don’t make it through the first year. I want you to know that it is my greatest desire to get your son/daughter involved in our ministry and want to help in whatever way I can.

When I talk to incoming 9th grade students about the transition into our ministry, I use these five key words: FEAR, FUN, FAITH, FINISH, and FRIENDS.

FEAR
The transition from being the “big shot” in the junior high group to being the youngest in the high school group is scary. I want them to know that their feelings are natural and real. It is scary walking into a room of students who look older.

FUN
High school ministry is fun. We want people to have a good time when they come into our ministry. “Laughter” and “celebration” are two key words we use to describe this value of fun. Most students use the word “boring” when they describe church. Because of this, we attempt to shatter the stereotype that church is boring. You may hear of some wild things over the next four years and there’s a great chance that they were planned! (Although there is a small chance a few wild things will happen that unfortunately weren’t planned (like the time a student was attacked by a family of antelope in the Refinery. But that’s another story).

FAITH
Our primary goal is to help your child mature in his/her faith. We have a defined strategy with quality programs that assist students in their spiritual growth. Our goal is the same goal God has for all Christians—to grow into the likeness of Jesus Christ. I want to emphasize the word “assist” because I know that one’s spiritual growth isn’t solely dependent our on our high school ministry. I believe with all my heart that we have some of the very best teaching, curriculum, Life Groups, practical growth tools, and missions opportunities that a church can offer. Any level student who genuinely wants to grow in his/her faith will be challenged here.

FINISH
I want to see students finish their high school years strong in their faith. I had Wing Stop today with 2 of my favorite seniors and we reflected on the incredible 4-year journey they’ve been on. Our leadership team is affirmed when our graduating seniors have strong convictions about their faith, a lifestyle that reflects their convictions, and lifelong plans to serve God. Four years is a long time to stay involved in a youth ministry, but we know it serves as a foundation to finishing strong. We want our graduating seniors to have “sticky faith” that stays with them into and throughout their college years.

FRIENDS
“Students become like the people they hang out with.” Even though students hate it when I say it, I’ve seen that truth played out thousands of times over the years. Almost everything in high school revolves around friends! To finish strong, good friends are vital.

Although we have over 1,000 high school students that are involved in our high school ministry, we also have many ways for it to “feel” small. Although there is no way I will everyone personally, everyone will be known by a caring adult who will play the role of “youth pastor” to your son or daughter. Please don’t be afraid to ask for help…if I can’t help, I can find someone who can.

I look forward to serving you – welcome to HSM!

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsHSM Weekend in Review: Volume 144

Weekend Teaching Series: Promotion Weekend (1-off)
Sermon in a Sentence:
What I wish I knew in High School.
Service Length: 75 minutes

Understandable Message: This weekend the message was taught by all of the HSM Staff. Each of us got on stage and did a short introduction of ourselves and what we did on the team, then taught a single point about what we wish we knew in High School. Subjects ranged from identity, friends, evengelism, purity, the importance of Scripture, etc. It flowed surprisingly well having different personalities on stage – made me happy that our team is so diverse in every way. God uses a ton of different people to come together to minister to all types of students. Awesome.

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: The weekend had a strong element of fun and lots of student involvment. We had a fun bit up front called “The Freshman Olympics” and played a couple of fun games up front with the incoming 9th graders versus the seniors. We also had a great video-that-turned-into-a-live-performance rap that helped promote summer camp. Lots of students involved greeting, hosting the game, singing and band. Even had a freshman lead one of the songs. Go Brad!

Music Playlist: Summer Camp is Going Down (opener), Rise and Sing, You’ll Come, Holy Holy Holy

Favorite Moment: I love that we can go from a hilarious opener to a powerful worship song at the end with lots of great content inbetween. For sure the highlight has to go to seeing all of the potential of these incredible freshman entering youth group. Pumped.

Up Next: 11 vs. the World (series premiere, week 1 of 2)