Josh GriffinMore PostsHSM Weekend in Review: Volume 39

Weekend Teaching Series: You Own the Weekend: Capo Valley High School (Series Finale)
Sermon Title: We are Ambassadors
Sermon in a Sentence: Jesus has been represented poorly in the world, it is time for a generation of students to rise up and represent Him well.

Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 5:20 So we are Christ’s ambassadors; God is making his appeal through us. We speak for Christ when we plead, “Come back to God!”

Weekend Scale of Difficulty: 5 out of 10
Attendance: down 11% from last weekend, up 85% from same weekend last year
Service Length: 59 minutes

Understandable Message: The talk was divided up into 3 parts again this week – the first was a junior Cap guy who talked about commons forms of Jesus – most representing Him incorrectly to the world. He showed, animated Jesus, Yes Jesus, giant Jesus and Jesus who loves puppies. The second student, a Capo senior guy, talked about how we are the ambassadors of Jesus to the world. He apologized to the non-Christians who have been hurt or wounded by Christians, and admitted that we all failed when living the life God calls us to. He also challenged the students to represent Jesus at all times, like we represent our high school when we’re on campus or not. The final part of the talk was another senior Capo guy, who shared his story of abuse and divorce and how he is doing his best despite those challenges to represent Christ in his school and to his younger brother.

Volunteer/Student Involvement: Students did everything! Students ran the lights, cameras, music, programmed, announcements, shot/edited video, ran the control room, emceed, greeted, taught and decorated.

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: The building was impressive to look at – they had an inflatable football entrance tunnel as you entered The Refinery, and the 10ft tall inflatable Cougar’s mouth had to be seen to be believed – I’ll try to post pictures soon. Capo was represented well with a ton of cheerleaders, balloons and streamers. They played a cool “takeover” video and song at the beginning, and a funny dance video filmed at the school, too.

Music Playlist: Take It All

Favorite Moment: The series ended well – we announced this week that You Own the Weekend 2 will come out this May – Tesoro, Mission Viejo and “Everyone Else” will get their shot this Spring. There’s been an exciting connection between student leadership and friendship evangelism, and I’m excited to take it through all of the campuses this year. This is almost for sure going to become an annual series.

Next up: Taffy is doing a 1-off on Love and it is also our Chi Alpha discipleship retreat weekend.

Josh GriffinMore PostsThe Best Youth Ministry Website in the World

The best youth ministry website in the world doesn’t exist … yet.

But if I was given the task of designing it, I’ve got a few ideas to make it work. Here’s the idea:

In short, the basic look and feel would be cool but easily interchangeable. Content is king so style is present but can change with every reload of the page (maybe it loads graphics from each of the 5 schools you primarily minister to?) or at least seasonally (new theme 4x a year?). The front page is a portal, designed to help guide people in our discipleship process, which in our case is the purposes. So there is a ‘latest news’ bucket, with headlines from all areas, and a specific bucket for each purpose as well. It should visually demonstrate where a student might first visit our church and navigate intuitively toward spiritual maturity. So there’s a checking-us-out-entry-level-starting-point that then moves people in each next step of commitment – small groups, growing on their own, serving and missions.

When you click on any post, there are three tabs that target different audiences who might be reading the same information.

  • The first tab, which is set by default, displays student Information. If the post is for a discipleship retreat, it gives the basics of the event, cost and the option to register right there online. Maybe you can even do some limited searching and see who else is going to make sure your friends are in, too.
  • The second tab is set for parent/volunteer Information. It lists emergency contact information, links to real-time blogs and Twitters of the event, and allows parents to get a fuller scope of the event with a more detailed schedule, a cost-breakdown of where your money is going, scholarship information and also allows volunteers to get that detailed info too and sign up for it online.
  • The third tab contains all of the stuff that goes on behind the scenes to share with other churches. In this example, you could download a budget template, a speaker contract, release forms, videos and more. Everything we used in pulling off the event/activity/series would be posted in that third tab for download or purchase.

Couple of asides: there would maybe still be a “store” of sorts – a clearinghouse for all of the resource your church is now creating, and a section for parents and volunteers that collects all of the information and puts it in their own pages. These would all be secondary though, to the tabbed approach. Everything is tied into one central database, with 3 large input fields for each event. When you add a “product” it is associated with the posts about that event/resource. The system would have to tie into Facebook and texting (and whatever’s next) so when we post it also gets immediately sent to phones and shot out to social media.

So let’s say we do an overnight event. We post about it on the blog, and students can get the information they need and register online. They can watch a promo video and maybe there’s a link to send it to their friends or “post this to MySpace” option. The parent tab shows where we’ll be throughout the night, even including GPS monitoring of the front vehicle using Mobile Locator – think Flight Tracker for your youth event. Then in the youth minstry tab, you can download everything we used for event – the volunteer training, the registration forms, promo videos, teaching and more.

Let’s say we post a weekend in review for HSM. For students, it is a recap of the teaching and some video clips of the service embedded on the page. In the parent/volunteer section you can watch the services live or download a “Talk it Over” lesson where parents can engage students in what they learned at church or small group leaders can discuss during the week with their students. The final tab contains hi-res copies of all of the videos we used (if we created them you can buy them there, if we got them from another site it has the links to where you can get them), the program sheets and the teaching outlines, all in nearly real time. Uploading a sermon to the site also automatically uploads it to VideoTeaching, YouTube and Blip.

That my friends, is what I think could make for the best youth ministry site in the world. You could do a stripped down version for your needs, or add upgrades to make it even more robust. So what am I missing?

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsHSM Weekend in Review: Volume 35

Weekend Teaching Series: The Kind of Guy I Want My Daughter to Marry (Week 1 of 2)
Sermon in a Sentence: God gives us “the list” of qualities to look for in Mr. Right – start making your own list of what you want in a man and settle for nothing less.

Key Verse: Philippians 2 Epaphroditus and Timothy

Weekend Scale of Difficulty: 6 out of 10. This weekend was a combination of a great talk, purchased videos, rented wedding props and some delicious cake.

Attendance: up 14% from last weekend, up 65% from same weekend last year
Service Length: 77 minutes

Understandable Message: This weekend Doug Fields taught a checklist of character traits a man should have in order to attract the right kind of girl. He concentrated on the life of Timothy and Epaphroditus to give us a list of character traits that girls should be looking for in a guy. The message was clear and simple – guys, step up and be the man God wants you to be – girls, don’t settle for anything less than God’s best.

Volunteer/Student Involvement: Students made up the band, and did the lights, camera and sound. A good number of students were involved in setup and cleanup as well.

Element of Fun/Positive Environment: Lots of fun details this week! We had a full wedding setup on stage this weekend – two lit candle sets and an arch covered with white wedding lights. The band entered to Canon in D and I welcomed everyone dressed as the officiating ministry in a full suit. In the talk we played several videos, including Mandles and True Men of Genius. At the end we even served wedding cake to everyone as they left!

Music Playlist: Single Ladies, Lead Me to the Cross, Always Forever

Announcements: Praise and Worship Night (Fuel), Discipleship Retreat (Chi Alpha), Superbowl Family Party

Handouts: Spring 2009 Calendars, Chi Alpha registration packets, Refinery After Hours cards

Favorite Moment: Walking my 3-year old daughter down the isle of church to a wedding-themed stage has to be my favorite moment of the weekend! Talking about the day I’ll someday have to give her away? Not so much.

Josh GriffinMore Posts3 Emotions I Feel When I Get Called into the Office

As a youth pastor, when you get the call to head up to an elder’s office or the senior pastor hits you up with an email asking for a meeting, your mind races. What’s going on? What is this about? Is everything OK?

I don’t think I’m alone in this … so right or wrong, let me be honest and share with you what I think as a youth pastor when someone higher up asks for 15 minutes:

“Man, what did I say? My mind races, I quickly rehearse the conversations I’ve had recently. I concede some moments where I overstepped good boundaries and said something stupid. I think about interactions with parents and wonder if my mouth got me in trouble. I concede that it probably did. The torment grows with each minute that passes between that first contact and the actual meeting.

“Shoot, did someone get hurt?”I don’t remember anything off hand, but maybe someone broke an arm last night at killball. I forgot all about the release forms. Or is it possible we accidentally left a few kids back at that camp after the retreat? Come to think of it, the pastor’s daughter wasn’t in youth group last night. Interesting.

“Argh! Am I going to get fired?” The panic refuses to settle down. I try to pray about it. My mind is racing – why would they want to meet with me? We have a healthy understanding – they don’t talk to me much and I don’t upset the ship. So I send a reply to the email, asking if there’s anything I can do to ‘prepare’ for the meeting, hoping to get a clue as to what we might be meeting about, and hoping it isn’t me losing my job.

Whew! Sigh. It was nothing like that after all. But the lack of a relationship with the elders and leadership of the church created a rabid insecurity inside of me. If you’re a youth worker and anything like me, here’s what you can do to avoid these feelings:

  • take your supervisor out for lunch to build a relationship
  • ask for regular feedback from your boss
  • keep your conversations in check, stay out of trouble in the first place
  • don’t leave kids at camp
  • ask the leadership to attend youth group on special weekends and events, so you don’t freak out when they just show up
  • keep the elders in the loop so they don’t get hit with surprises

If you’re a pastor or elder, here’s a few ways to save your youth worker from getting an ulcer:

  • spend relational time together outside of tasks
  • tell your youth worker why you want to meet with them in the original ask
  • drop into youth group occasionally, without an agenda
  • call meetings when something good happens, so we’re not conditioned to think something bad happened
  • be honest with your youth pastor when something really is up

JG

Josh GriffinMore Posts5 Steps to Calendar on Purpose

We laid out HSM’s spring calendar this past week – it was a great time of focusing our energy on the purposes and laying out the direction for our ministry. The process we followed to get our calendar set up went really well, so I thought it might be helpful for you as well as you work ahead, too:

Strive for balance
The first mission is for the leadership to be clear that one purpose or agenda isn’t going to dominate our calendar. We are a youth ministry that wants to be purpose-driven, not driven by one particular purpose. We will spend time talking about evangelism, fellowship, discipleship, ministry and worship – not letting any one thing drive the direction.

Take one purpose and run with it
So after the balance conversation, we spent time going through each month (January through June), putting on events, classes, trips and meetings that focus on one purpose. We also look at what we did the previous year and debrief them on the fly. If they worked, we consider it for the new year. If it didn’t, we do our best to go after something fresh. So we look at January and talk just discipleship, then hit month by month all focusing on that one purpose.

Repeat that process for each purpose
Then we went month by month again, this time through the eyes of evangelism. After that we hit fellowship dates for small groups, then dropped in discipleship retreats, camps and trainings. The goal was for each purpose to be represented clearly on the calendar.

Drop in the deadlines
Once the calendar is more or less “set” we dropped in deadlines for registrations and various milestones that related to the projects. For example, our mission trip requires a registration start and end, as well as 3 parent meetings and a celebration weekend. Small groups don’t just start day one, they need registration dates, deadlines and enough time for us to process the students into groups. When you plan an event, be sure to also include the follow-up dates as well.

Look at the big picture and cut away
Then we took a look at the overall big picture and goal for balance and health and start the painful process of figuring out what needs to be cut. We also came in with the mindset of what items need to be adjusted – could we partner our event with another time our target audience is already at church, instead of asking for another night out of the team and the committed.

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsTop 10 Blog Posts – August 2008

Here’s the top 10 posts from this blog over the past month – if you’re new to the blog this month (on the website or via RSS) – welcome!

JG

Josh GriffinMore PostsTake 6 Vacations A Year

OK, so its not exactly 6 weeks of vacation – I would have to be a senior pastor for that – but it is 6 separate trips or getaways every year to keep balance in our life. We take some trips with the whole family, some just with my wife. Here’s how we break up the year to spend time together:

October — Miramar Air Show Weekend (2-3 days)
Every fall we take a couple of days and spend time down in San Diego at one of the greatest air shows on earth. We haven’t missed in a few years and love to time travelling together and seeing the planes and display of airpower. We stay at a motel or beach trailer and while it is really just a long weekend, we sure love being together.

November — Thanksgiving Break (2-4 days)
Almost everything around here shuts down for a few days in November. We take off small groups, scale back the weekend services, and enjoy some time as a family. We don’t usually travel to meet anyone, we’ve found that less hustle and bustle in these seasons work really well for us.

December — Christmas Break (7-9 days)
Same thing here – the church all but shuts down the week between Christmas and the New Year – so we totally slow down as well. Everyone is off school, the weekend services are combined junior and senior high, so everything is low pressure. We haven’t left home for Christmas in a couple of years, and have really enjoyed just spending time together as a family.

May — California Weekend Trip (2-4 days)
This year we spent some time down in San Diego at the Zoo – next year we’ll hit up San Francisco or Yosemite National Park. The idea here is for a mid-year break to get away from the rigorous pace of ministry and life to see our state. They say that most people don’t take time to see some of the attractions in their area, and we don’t want to make the same mistake.

June – Team Staff Retreat (4 days)
Every year the student ministries team takes a couple of days off to relax as a team before the big summer run. And while that is a distant memory right now … it was a beautiful thing back in June. We find someone to stay with the kids and this is a husband/wife trip.

August — Road Trip Vacation (8-12 days)
This is the big one – we hit the road as a family and head out into the wild. This year we went to Nevada, Arizona, Utah and Wyoming. Next year, we’re planning an even bigger trip to the Midwest. This is pure family time on the road and visiting family at each destination.

JG

Josh GriffinMore Posts3 Things to Make Sure You Tell the Retreat Speaker

We’ve had some great experiences with camp and retreat speakers we’ve brought in – but as I’ve thought more about it I realized that there are a few things we should tell speakers up from before they take the stage at the weekend service or discipleship retreat. An outside speaker is just that – an outsider – why not give him/her some inside information to help them be more successful. Here’s 3 things that I’ll be sure to tell our next speaker:

Give them the inside tip on the history
What were the teaching series that preceeded this event? What is the direction you’ve been taking the students and how does this event play a part in it? Was the teaching time successful last time you had an outside speaker, and why? What are some areas your ministry/students are struggling in the outside voice can address?

Give them the inside tip on style
What format and teaching style are the students used to hearing? How does technology play a role in your communication style? What should the speaker wear? What is the typical length of a teaching lesson? What is considered normal, and are we OK with doing something outside of that? What is the typical translation used in teaching? Are students used to carrying a Bible and looking up passages?

Give them the inside tip on the audience
Who is going to be in the audience? What is success for the teaching time? Is there a large percentage of students who haven’t accepted Christ? Are students forced to be there? Who is represented in the audience? What is the spiritual depth of the typical student in attendance? Are there any sensitive issues/topics that the speaker should be aware of? Do we have the resources and volunteers to deal with the response a particular type of talk could generate?

JG