Josh GriffinMore PostsFrequently Asked Questions for Saddleback’s HSM

article.2013.04.09This week we’re going to take on the top 3 questions that we get when people come to visit our youth ministry. You’ll get mine (Josh) today and Kurt’s tomorrow. Here are 3 very frequently asked questions:

How can I start a youth ministry internship at my church?
We are very blessed to have some really incredible interns at our church and a program that doesn’t cost the church a ton of money that produces some pretty amazing youth workers. If you want to start one, you’ve got to answer some very basic but fundamental questions about the program:

  • Will we pay the interns?
  • Where are they going to live/eat/office?
  • What is the duration of the program?
  • What are we hoping to accomplish in both them and in our ministry?

If you can answer those basic questions, you are off to a great start! For starters, I would pay the interns a very small stipend, if possible, to help cover gas and a couple meals, and keep the duration short like a summer term. Map out the basics of what they will be doing and how you want to shape them and you’re well on your way.

While I don’t have space for much more, for extra credit here’s a roadmap of where to go next:

  • Look for margin where you can add managing interns to your regular workweek. The last thing interns need is an absent leader!
  • Create a required reading list during the internship.
  • Schedule a few times for them to interact with key leaders in the church.
  • As you plan their development, consider having them observe, follow then lead an event, youth service and volunteer from application to placement.

How many events do you guys do at your church?
We made a decision long ago that we weren’t going to build a ministry that was event-driven. But to be honest, we have to continually fight the advance of program creep. Program creep is where you continue to add more and more and not take anything away!

With that in mind, we have our weekly youth group on the weekend and small groups that meet in homes during the week, and then just occasional supplemental events from there. A serve project here, a Dodgeball tournament there. We consciously don’t do a ton of events to keep balance on the biblical purposes. Just so you know, in summer we do a TON more events, so things change with the seasons, too!

So do you teach every week at youth group?
I would guess I teach about 50% of the time in our youth ministry—I love giving the platform away for so many reasons:

  • Students need to hear from different voices
  • Sometimes the same thing being said by someone else sticks.
  • Leaders need platforms to develop their speaking skills.
  • I need a break!

Don’t be afraid to give away your platform a little bit—you might be surprised at how quickly you fall in love with the byproducts of it. Just keep in mind as the point person make sure you are speaking at the key times and visible and supportive when you’re not on stage.

This post was written by Josh Griffin and Kurt Johnston and originally appeared as part of Simply Youth Ministry Today free newsletter. Subscribe to SYM Today right here.

Josh GriffinMore PostsSYMC 2013 Highlight Video

So thankful to be a part of the Simply Youth Ministry Conference again this year (since the beginning, actually!) and love this video of highlights from the whole thing. Can’t wait to do it all again next year in Columbus!

JG

Chris WesleyMore PostsHow To Build Youth Ministry Endurance

This past weekend thousands of youth ministers participated in the Simply Youth Ministry Conference.  As a participant in the past few I know that feelings of empowerment and encouragement are flowing through this years attendees minds and souls.  The reason these conferences can be such a powerful experience is because of the camaraderie and the opportunity to take a youth ministry “Time Out”.

The problem with a conference like Simply Youth Ministry is that it’s only a weekend.  After a weekend of euphoria you are forced to go home and face:

  • That hurting teen.
  • A pastor you clash with.
  • An angry parent.
  • A semi committed ministry team.

Youth ministry is filled with hills and valleys.  It’s like a long run with no end in site.  The only way to get through it is ONE STEP AT A TIME.  To endure in this emotional, exhausting and journey that you and I call youth ministry you need to make sure you:

Network With Other Youth Workers: You can connect with these men and women at conferences, speak with your pastor or visit sites like the National Network of Youth Ministry.  Build relationships with men and women who know what you are facing.

Set-up Limits: This means creating a schedule that protects your time at home and what is most important at work.  It also means learning how to say “No” even if the opportunity seems incredible.  Work within your limits and see how God will bless you.

Seek Personal Accountability:  Find men or women in your church that you can meet with to talk about life, share goals and call you out when you are straying from what’s important.  If you don’t know where to start, talk to your pastor, ask fellow youth workers or talk with one of your volunteers to recommend people.

Embrace The Moments: Everything that is good in your ministry is significant.  When a teen invites a friend, quotes something from your message on Twitter or testifies in front of their peers, remember it.  For all the bad in youth ministry there is so much good.  As youth ministers you need to celebrate and share it with your coworkers, volunteers, parents, teens and other youth workers.  It’ll remind you why what you do is worth it.

Observe A Sabbath: As a youth worker you need to find other ways of embracing the Sabbath outside of Sundays.  While you might be at church it’s still easy to mix work with worship.  Take a day where you spend it quietly with God or join a prayer group not associated with your church.  If you can’t connect with God you’ll make yourself more exposed to Satan’s tricks.

Youth ministry is a battle because you are dealing with changing lives and relationships.  To truly survive and thrive you need to rely on God’s strength and love.  Invest in people who will invest in you and keep moving one step at a time.  Your work, dedication and heart for the next generation is priceless, fuel it.

How do you endure the long haul of youth ministry?

Chris Wesley (@chrisrwesley)

 

 

Josh GriffinMore PostsSYMC Sunday Night Announcements + Harlem Shake

The announcements for Sunday Night at SYMC … with a little twist!

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Josh GriffinMore PostsYouth Ministry Epic #FAIL

Fun collection of videos of youth ministry epic fails from the Simply Youth Ministry Conference. So fun!

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Josh GriffinMore PostsAnnouncements at the Simply Youth Ministry Conference 2013

Here are a couple of fun announcement videos from the Simply Youth Ministry Conference 2013. Jake and I have some old school fun with fish!

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Josh GriffinMore PostsWho’s in the Crowd? SYMC Opening Session Video

Dave and Steve created this fun infographic-style video based on a script I wrote about the attendees of the Simply Youth Ministry Conference 2013.

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Josh GriffinMore PostsLIVE Streaming the #SYMC General Sessions

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Want to watch the Simply Youth Ministry Conference (#SYMC) sessions live and didn’t make it to Indianapolis? You can watch them all online as they happen right here: SimplyYouthMinistry.tv!

Check out the schedule to see what is next right here, too! Be here even if you can’t be here.

JG