Weigh In: Volume 14 – Events for Guys-Only

on January 31st, 2012

From time to time I post a question that comes into the blog for YOU to answer. What advice would you give this youth pastor who is asking about starting over again in a much smaller context than his previous experience. I’ll post some of my thoughts next week on how I answered him over email, but was hoping you could weigh in with your thoughts, too. Weigh in!

I’m newly on staff with our church and just wanted to pick your brain a little!  I’m working on some outreach ideas for our students and trying to put together some “guy specific” events and ideas and just wanted to see if you wouldn’t mind sharing some knowledge.  If you get a chance, if there’s any way you could just let me know a couple things that have worked for y’all, or maybe like your top 2-3 ideas, or even a resource you could point me to, that would be fantastic!

I replied to his email … but would love for you to Weigh In, too! Leave a comment!

JG


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Weigh In – Volume 13: Starting a Ministry

on December 12th, 2011

From time to time I post a question that comes into the blog for YOU to answer. What advice would you give this youth pastor who is asking about starting over again in a much smaller context than his previous experience. I’ll post some of my thoughts next week on how I answered him over email, but was hoping you could weigh in with your thoughts, too. Weigh in!

I’m a 20+ year youth ministry veteran of large church ministry but I find myself at a different place of ministry right now.  My family and are a part of a faith community that consists of maybe 125 people and most of those are college students from the local university. I was recently approached by the pastor about developing something for students (junior high and high school).  Before I was approached I felt like I needed to offer my time, so I welcomed the conversation.

To this point there has been nothing for students and we’ve lost some families because of it. I was, and am, energized by the possibility but to be honest, there’s a part of me that is at a loss of what to do. I realized I’ve always been a part of building onto something that has already existed.  This is starting from complete scratch! I realize not having anything is not necessarily a bad thing, because what ever we do, and how we do things, will have to be about relationships.

I guess my reason for contacting you is to simply ask: what would you do?  How would you go about starting a ministry? If you could start from scratch how would you do it? What would you not do?

JG


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Weigh In – Volume 11: Having an “Invitation”

on September 5th, 2011
From time to time I post a question that comes into the blog for YOU to answer. What advice would you give this youth pastor who is asking about having a formal invitation at youth group. Help them out in the comments!
I have a question for you: we’re revamping our youth ministry altar call and wanted to know a couple of things about what you guys do: do you have an actual invitation? If so, when there’s an altar call and youth come up, what do you give them to follow-up … if anything? Do you have a discipleship program that takes them from there?

Your turn … weigh in!

JG


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Weigh In – Volume 10: Senior Pastor Making Changes to Youth Group

on July 14th, 2011

From time to time I post a question that comes into the blog for YOU to answer. What advice would you give this youth pastor’s wife in this time of crisis:

We’ve been at this church for a year – already longer than the last 2 youth workers! We started with about a dozen kids and now we have almost triple that on Sunday mornings (more evangelistic) and a solid 15 or so during a midweek program (more discipleship). Here’s the problem: our senior pastor just cancelled the Sunday program so we are basically back where we started. We’ve literally cried about this, and was wondering if you had an insight on where we should go from here. Help!

So … your turn. What should they do?

JG


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Weigh In – Volume 9: Death in the Youth Group

on June 16th, 2011

Occasionally I pose a question that was directed to me over to you for an answer. Its called Weigh In and here’s a great question I received from a youth worker on Twitter last night. Here’s the ask, MTDB community, to respond:

One of my students had her brother die yesterday. What are some ways our youth group can respond to her and the family?

Can you offer some ideas or help? Please do in the comments!

JG


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Weigh In – Volume 8: Moving to In-Home Small Groups

on May 19th, 2011

From time to time I post a youth ministry question that I’ve received and leave it to you, the MTDB youth ministry community, to answer it. This one from a youth worker in Pennsylvania, but it could be from anyone since it applies to so many. Chime in with your wisdom, response and best practices. Go!

I’m a youth pastor that is considering a move from Sunday School to in-home small groups. I wanted some advice on how to make the transition, and if it was the right decision at all. It seems like a good move for us, but there are so many variables. Would appreciate any help – thanks!

JG


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Weigh In – Volume 7: Going Deeper

on April 18th, 2011

From time to time I post a youth ministry question that I’ve received and leave it to you, the MTDB youth ministry community, to answer it. This one from a youth worker in Canada, but it could be from anyone since it applies to so many ministries. Chime in with your wisdom, response and best practices. Go!

Last week I had a meeting with 4 students who said they needed our Youth Program to be deeper. There are few words that bring a more unclear and vague feeling to my mind than the idea of deeper. Depth is such a personal thing, taking the whole group there in a one size ministry (grades 7-12) isn’t easy and even if you have just Senior Highs, reaching the core and the crowd can be hard to do. So the question is this: How do you respond to students that want to go deeper? How does this work out in your youth services?

JG


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Weigh In – Volume 6: Responding to Natural Disasters

on March 14th, 2011

From time to time I post a youth ministry question that I’ve received and leave it to you, the MTDB youth ministry community, to answer it. This is a timely one from a youth worker in Texas. We don’t do much about this issue in our youth group – but I pointed them to this post, hoping you would chime in with wisdom and best practices. Go!

QUESTION: I have a question for you. Today I have been watching all of the news about the earthquake in Japan. It is all over the news, radio, Facebook, MySpace, Twitter so i know that it will be on the minds of our young people. What are some ways that you would recommend using natural disasters and any huge disaster as a teaching moment for young people?

JG


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3 Cries and 3 Dreams

on February 28th, 2011

Occasionally I’ll post a question or thought that I won’t answer in hopes that you will. Today is one of those days! Here you go:

  • What are your top 3 cries to God?
  • What are your top 3 dreams?

Very interested to hear what you have to say!

JG


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Weigh In – Volume 5: Apathetic Youth Group Sinking

on January 6th, 2011

From time to time I post a youth ministry question that I’ve received and leave it to you, the MTDB youth ministry community, to answer it. This is a particularly good one from a new and hurting youth worker. I replied to them personally, and pointed them to this post, hoping you would chime in with passion, encouragement and wisdom. Go!

QUESTION: I recently started a new job at a church as the Youth Director.  It is a part-time position and I am in charge of youth ministry for middle and high schoolers.  The church is pretty big, probably 300 members, but the youth group is relatively small – only about 12 kids that come regularly.  Students are apathetic and there is a lack of passion of any kind in their faith.  I have been trying to make our discipleship and teaching about why Jesus matters and how He effects our lives in practical ways, but nothing seems to be sticking.  I am getting very discouraged, this youth group ship seems to be sinking and I am afraid that I can’t stop it.  Please pray for my situation.  I would welcome any advice you have.

JG


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