GUEST POST: Family Transformation
About three weeks ago I got a Facebook message from two of my students’ father. The message was requesting to meet with me over some coffee before our earliest church service on that upcoming Sunday morning. During this meeting the father unloaded some pretty personal things that were going on in his life. He broke down a time or two in tears. In front of me sat a man vulnerable and in need of God’s guidance and grace in his life and the life of his family. After this father had finished talking I was left with one question before I went any further in our meeting. So I asked him, “Sir, why do trust me so much with some of your lives deepest problems?” What he said will forever be engrained into my memory still today. And he said,
“Cory, I have entrusted you with my children, the most precious cargo I have in my life… why would I not trust you with my own life?”
Wow! What an honest response to such a serious question? At Brentwood Church our student ministry, Collide Student Ministries, strives more than anything to partner with parents and equip them to love their students and lead them spiritually. After all, ideally, the parents have more time, influence, and a deeper relationship with their students than we could ever have. Through this meeting with this father I realized how much of an impact one person can have on a students family, not just on that student.
This morning, Sunday July 18th, 2010, I met again with that father. He again shared some things that are going on in his life, and as we prayed together he thanked God for the relationship I have with his children because that relationship paved the way for mine and his relationship! Before my eyes it was happening, Family Transformation. There is nothing better than when transformation happens in a students life, and as a result family transformation takes place. I am only an intern. I am only 22 years old. I am only one person. I am not the student pastor, and I am not the lead pastor, but the way the Holy Spirit has used me to impact two teenagers has turned into an impact on an entire family… Family Transformation.
My only hope is that I get to enjoy more of these amazing experiences throughout my life.
Cory Ball is the Family Focus Intern at Brentwood Church in Lynchburg, Virginia. Get on his blog right here.
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