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Joshua Griffin is the High School Pastor at Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, CA. He is a father of four and been in full-time youth ministry for about 15 years. Griff speaks a little, writes a little, Twitters a bit and blogs a lot. MTDB gets multiple updates a day - subscribe and hang on!
99 Thoughts for Youth Workers - My first book is a simple collection of learnings in the past couple of years of youth ministry. Written for lead youth workers and volunteers who are totally committed to the cause. Insights from the trenches of youth ministry. $4.99, Group Publishing
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Doug Fields and I wrote a book for students called Live Large. Be Different. Shine Bright. to challenge and encourage the students in our ministry to strive for 12 godly and inspiring character qualities. Raise the bar! $9.99, Group Publishing
[read the first chapter]
Doug Fields and I just turned in the final manuscript for 99 Thoughts for Small Group Leaders, written specifically to the volunteer small group leader. My prayer is that it will be a tool to encourage and equip your rookie and veteran leaders for the challenge of leading youth ministry small groups. $6.99, Group Publishing
We are excited to finally roll out the new SYMC website for 2011. The new site has the speaker line-up (although there’s more to come there), the great Training options, and all the registration details you need to know. There’s so much there you’ll have to check it out what Doug and the rest of the gang have planned.
We are so excited, I hope you join us in Chicago, March 4 – 7 2011.
1 September 2010
posted by Scott Rubin
Some of your churches are like mine, and you encourage some of your volunteers to ?take a breath? during the summer months. We push the pause button on our small groups in June & July so that our faithful volunteers can vacation, rest, and be ready to jump back into investing in junior highers once the school year begins. Honestly, our ministry is less effective during those months, and I miss those volunteers like crazy, but for us it?s the best choice in the long run. (and, it probably explains why so many of our volunteers have stuck around for years & years!)
So last week, I was anticipating the ?re-arrival? of our school year volunteers. I said to our staff team, ?Who?s one person that you?re really really looking forward to serving alongside of this year?? It was fun to hear people?s answers? and look forward to this fun we?re going to have together this year, as we point middle schoolers towards Jesus.
Later that day, I decided to take 4 minutes & jot a note to one of those volunteers? and tell them how much they?re valued around here ? and why. It?s a habit I?m trying to ?re-create? ? because honestly, I?ve gotten a little sloppy with it! (Which is crazy, because when I get an encouragement note, sometimes I?ll carry it around with me for a few days!) Thoughtful words are really meaningful to me — and in about 4 minutes, I can put some fuel in someone?s tank just by jotting them a snail-mail note. In a mailbox full of credit card offers and cable-tv-advertisements, a card from you would be a welcome site!
This may make the live bloggers a little miffed, but apple announced they will live stream their event tomorrow. I love that they made this move.
From their site: Apple will broadcast its September 1 event online using Apple?s industry-leading HTTP Live Streaming, which is based on open standards. Viewing requires either a Mac running Safari on Mac OS X version 10.6 Snow Leopard, an iPhone or iPod touch running iOS 3.0 or higher, or an iPad?. The live broadcast will begin at 10:00 a.m. PDT on September 1, 2010 at www.apple.com.
I’ll be sure to log in, how about you?
UPDATE: Here the link for the live stream: http://events.apple.com.edgesuite.net/1009qpeijrfn/event. Here are the system requirements: Safari 4 or 5 on Mac OS X Snow Leopard or Safari on iOS 3 or later. Sorry PC friends.
Here?s a thought-provoking twist on an old game that you can use at a youth group meeting to help kick-off your fall and to generate a great discussion about community and commitment to each other. With this new twist on the classic Hide and Seek, from back in the day, your youth will have to make a decision that will provoke deeper thoughts as to: “Why we hide sometimes,” “Why do we not seek others out” and “How does it feel to be ‘found’.”
Hide and Seek (with a twist)
Yesterday I was on an hour long live radio show with Faith Radio in Saint Paul, Minnesota. We talked about the book I wrote with Reggie and Abbie called, The Slow Fade. They asked me a bunch of questions, people called in and sent emails to ask questions. If you’re interested in listening to that interview via podcast, click here.
There are a lot of changes happening in our student ministries right now. In the midst of the crazy summer so many other components are moving in different directions. Many of the changes are great, and needed. And it will be exciting to see how God will unfold all that we have been praying for. But there are a few changes that I (as the wife) do not like so much and don’t understand. It is these changes that I don’t know what to say, and not say, and just what to do. My pride wants to shout at my husband, “Hey, did ya think it all through? Are ya real, REAL sure about that one?!” And my favorite, “Listen to me, listen to me, just listen to me!” BUT…..I know I shouldn’t.
I don’t know if I’m alone on this one, or what?? Anyone else fear change as much as me? I totally trust my husband and his call to this ministry. I do believe he is brilliant and gifted and a wonderful leader. Buuutttttt, what do you do when you don’t agree with it all?? Nothing? Pray? Vent, and visit this site?
I did take a big step (for me) this weekend. Our Pastor asked us to choose one area in which we would come to God daily for the summer and ask his guidance. I was certain that I was going to ask for wisdom concerning all these changes happening for us [...]
Ur YM has kicked off for the fall or is about to. How’s ur voluntold team looking?
Mark DeVries in his epic book, Sustainable Youth Ministry, says u should have 1 adult volunteer (engaged and relational I would add) for every 5 of ur youth. How’s that going for you?
Some of u are doing great. Skip the rest of this blog then and go back to chatting on FB.
For the rest of you: having trouble getting enough good volunteers?
Three reasons why: 1) Have you asked the right people?
2) Have you given them a specific job description with clear cut expectations, boundaries, plans and purpose?
3) Are you spending more time with ur teens than w ur volunteers?
Let any one of these three facts go awry and that’s a place to start figuring out why ur begging and pleading for help. Why ur pulling out hairs u can’t spare from ur head. Why uve even resorted to asking the SP if he would like to help “chaperon” the MS lock-in. Ur are one desperate YP if it comes to that!
Stephanie
PS-u can always tell when i’m posting from my phone. grammer, spelling and abbreviations don’t seem to matter to me.
This past Sunday, my family headed into the heart of Seattle to attend an Ethiopian church as part of celebratingour daughter. We decided that it would be special to have her dedicated at the Ethiopian church. And it was super special and memorable.
As I sat through the 31/2 hour service I thought a lot of being a first timer to church. This church did an AMAZING job welcoming us in- despite that our family was the only whiteys in the crowd they didn’t make us feel like we stood out. They greeted us, sat with us and even translated for us. The ENTIRE service was in Amharic…and though I couldn’t understand a word of what was being said I could understand the heart of worship in the place and it was powerful. After the service, no one was in a hurry to get out the door…they wanted to be together. So, they lingered together over coffee and bread. Enjoying the benefits and beauty of community.
Here’s a few things I learned:
1. Visitors need to be welcomed in a geniune way. It’s not enough to greet them at the door…someone needs to sit with them and explain what’s happening next or how we do this “traditional” activity. I think being insidea church for the first time can feel very similar to being at a church were no one speaks english- overwhelming and confusing but if you sense that you belong- you can [...]
It has been a while since we talked about sex directly in HSM. Last year we did a series called “They Kind of Guy I Want My Daughter to Marry” and “The Kind of Girl I Want My Son to Marry” which was really fun, this year we’re going all out with a new series we’re kicking off this weekend called … The Sex Series.
JG
Preaching the Gospel, with the emphasis on being centered on the person and works of Christ, pretty much solves the sex issue. The more talk about sex, and the more you prohibit it… the more you well up the desire in them to be curious by it. Romans 5, 6, & 7.
Anything outside the Gospel only treats the symptoms not the heart of the matter and that is they are a sinner in need of a savior. The doctrine is practical and the practical is doctrinal.
Grace and Peace
More Than DodgeBall – Youth Ministry Blog by Josh Griffin – Saddleback Church's High School Youth Ministry (HSM) A blog about youth ministry and youth worker life from the High School Pastor at Saddleback Church.
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Did you guys do 2 separate series at 2 different times last year or did you do just one series last year on sex?